So here the deal, I currently in discussion with a company to go back into the oil field and I'm having a very difficult time weighing the ability to FIRE much faster vs. having time with my wife and kids (now 1.5 & almost 4). The short version of my situation is below...
Currently work 4-10s in a heavy fab shop as an engineer, early in early out, so I'm home by 4:30 every day.
$53/hr, medical, 6% 401K match, all that happy stuff...
Due to a salary cap I can't work any more than 20 hrs OT per month (paid straight time)
The field job - 6 days a week 12-13hr days, We (the whole family) would likely live in a camper and move as needed
$54/Hr, 18$/hr truck pay, $8 per Hr worked into 401K(not from my check), Per diem of $135/day, pension plan but doesn't pay out until 65 (I'm 33).
If I'm doing a bit of math right, it's about 2x the work for 3.5x the pay.
My big issue is not really getting to see my girls at all... I'm not scared of work, but getting home around 6 (ish) every night really doesn't leave time for anything with my kids.
What do ya'll think?? A SOLID run at this field job could spring board us to FIRE VERY quickly, I am just fearful I'll look back and regret missing the time with my kids. How do ya'll manage this? I think my biggest hangup is the OT/Salary Cap at my current job... For some reason that really bothers me.