I am quite happy with less and I actually want the few things I already have. So when my friends ask how I manage to not spend and save, I ask them which do you prefer more cool stuff or more freedom? For me I choose to amass rich experiences and shared memories. Ultimately I want to to achieve freedom to pursue causes and projects I deem worthy with my limited life energies. Call me crazy but somehow buying stuff just does not help.
As such I have grown quite
immune to popular things and consumer stuff. Aren't these the very things we are
programmed that need? Things such as: cars, cosmetics, credit cards, drinking, eating out, prestigious labels from education, fashion, gambling, jewelry, technology, toys, etc? The thing is I DO NOT want them and I realize hey, no one is forcing me to buy them except me. So I decided no more. Now these things hold little meaning to me and I would not shed a tear if they literally burned in-front of me.
To achieve financial freedom I know I need to have more flexiblity and
discipline in my life. Being able to confidentally and firmly say no to myself, peer pressure and unhealthy psychological marketing. How about for you?
I use one technique to help me rationalize potential spending. I chose to deliberate purchases, judiciously weighing if
lasting value is created against short-term fixes.
I ask myself does this purchase or activity make me genuinely happier, healthier, wealthier, or wiser? Does this purchase create "rich" experiences in my life? This focused mindset helps me live a stress free, simple and stoic life . Adam Baker's TED talk expands on the very same idea.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9XRPbFIN4lk&feature=youtu.be Enjoy!
So, what does freedom look like to you? :)
Cheers!