My parents did their estate planning in 1999 so are now shopping around for lawyers to meet with to update their trust/wills/POAs, etc.
They met with one lawyer and realized while he could update their documents, he wasn't able to provide any advice regarding the most financially prudent way to designate their inhertances. So I'm trying to help my parents come up with questions in advance to ask potential lawyers to narrow down the right type of estate planning for them.
One of the changes is that they have 2 grandkids, both in their teens. Besides a paid-off house, my parents have Trad IRAs, 401(k)s, annuities, and a sizeable after-tax brokerage account. After both of them pass, after leaving some money to charities they want to leave the rest of the first 4 assets to me and my siblings, and the brokerage account in a trust for the grandkids, split 50/50. My parents will probably choose me or one of my siblings to be the trustee. Each grandchild would get distributions of the principal from the brokerage account spread over time starting at age 25 at the earliest. Parents live in a US state that has no state taxes, and their current net worth including their house is around 3 million.
Questions:
1. Are there any particular advantages or disadvantages to leaving the Trad IRAs and 401ks to the adult children vs. the grandchildren, and the brokerage account to the grandchildren vs. the adult children?
2. Does the trustee have to sell and re-buy the stocks in the brokerage account at the time of my last parent's death to establish a new basis?
3. Assuming there is a gap between the time my last parent passes and the first grandkid turns 25, given the higher tax rate on trust income than personal income, would it make more sense to leave the brokerage account to the parents with the understanding that they would then give the money to their kids at age 25 and after? (The siblings can be trusted to do the right thing in this situation.)