hi - My husband and I are both in our 40s with 4 kids under 9. He makes a lot of money, but we are living paycheck to paycheck. I'm so frustrated that we are in the same place we were 10 years ago- carrying $1500 on a credit card, and having $2500 in the bank. We do have 401k & 403 B with combined $175K, so we are saving a little bit, but just not nearly enough- and I am not sure where to start.
My husband is the primary bread winner- drives 45 minutes to work (before you punch me for that- I know it stinks!- but, he will be getting transferred to another project in a year, so that will hopefully be closer to home). He brings home $2500 every two weeks. I work a couple evenings and make about $800 every 2 weeks. Yes, I could go back to work full time, but that is still a couple years away bc our kids are little. We own our home- it's worth about $350K and we owe $250K. We have 2 cars- van is paid off and a commuter car that we owe $15K on.
I guess my frustration is that I feel like we are already frugal- we pack lunches, we cook at home, I shop at the good will, I sell stuff on ebay on the side, but we still aren't getting anywhere.
Any suggestions? Do I need to post more specific numbers? Can you punch me, please.