Hey everyone, I've got a good one here:
Background:
Wife and I paid off a considerable amount of debt using Dave Ramseys method and are now working toward investing.
My sister is 39 years old.
No retirement savings
No savings
Rent an apartment in Long Island, NY
Has a paid for car, that will need to be replaced soon.
Has been and is currently on welfare
Currently works FT as a diner waitress while going to school FT
**Is a recovering alcoholic who has been sober for over 7 years. I bring this up because it may help explain why she received her degrees so late in life, and why she may have no savings. (Although you do not need to be an alcoholic to be terrible with retirement planning)
Scenario:
My sister recently graduated with a bachelors degree in social work, which the state of NY paid for. She decided that she didn't like social work; this was decided before she even got a job in social work.
She then decided to pursue a second bachelors degree and masters degree in Acupuncture and Chinese Medicine and will graduate in 2.5 / 3 years. I have asked her about her loans and she claims that she expect to have around 80-100k in student loan debt. She believes that she is going to be able to write a "Debt Validation letter" and magically her student loans will be forgiven. Despite the fact that I told her she needs to have a plan to pay off this debt, she believes that she will cross that bridge she she gets there. She has also commented about the possibility of starting a business with a few of her classmates, despite not knowing anything about running a business or securing a business loan.
I am trying to preach to her about her decisions and the impact this may have on her future. My fear is that she wil not be able to pay off her student loans, and she will go crawling for my parents for help. My parents are retired on a fixed income, and do not have the funds to bankroll my sisters mistakes.
My question to all of you is; What advice should I give my sister? Should I just stay out of it all together, since technically it is none of my business and watch?
My wife and I worked really hard on getting our debt paid off, and it kills us to see anyone make poor decisions like this.
Thanks for your help
Tom