Is this an income based forebearance? Will your wife's salary require you to start paying? Have you been paying the interest or letting it accrue? What is the actual total? Does your school district offer any kind of loan forgiveness?
+1 - also what is the interest? Is there a minimum you are required to pay once you start paying it all back? Have you looked into a refi?
What is your overall situation? Would you wife be OK with throwing all or half of her salary at your student debt? Can you pick up side gigs, delivering pizza or tutoring... to slay this debt?
There are several teachers on this board who make good money teaching English, speaking with Chinese students online - a solid $40 hr.
It may take a while, but the sooner you start the sooner you'll be debt free. Figure it out, set it up on automatic payments and go on with your life:)
A case study would help to sort it all out.