Oops, I posted in one of the other places this same post was started. I'll move it to here. :-)
I'm paying for an underwater property that will not appreciate for years to come. There are many foreclosures in my area. A buyer can simply come in my neighborhood and purchase a similar home for 500k with 4% interest rate.
Clearly, looking at the local market is bumming you out. Which is only human... But you can't change the past. You do have the mortgage, and that is the current market. Someday the market prices will go up, but it might be in the far future.
How much could you get an apartment for, for yourself, assuming this is the area you like to stay in? I'm guessing that $1700 is probably market rate. :) So in some sense, right now you have a $1400/month positive cash flow. If the apartment is what you need to live in.
You seem to be in a lucky spot, since you *can* afford the mortgage & expenses. Hooray! Nothing immediately desperate.
Some more specific options might include, assuming the market value of your property is now $500k:
1. Do nothing. You have a heavily discounted place to live as a result.
- if housing prices depress further, then you'll regret not selling now. Because of the loan, in a year, the costs go up (or the discount lessens).
+ Prices stay the same or improve, over time (both property value, & rental prices)
2. Sell, for market rate ($500k you mentioned for comparables?), and pay off the mortgage ($80k more).
- You still need to live somewhere, and you're locking in your loss
+ Clean slate, known starting point, nice and simple.
3. Refinance at market rate. Get $400k loan on $500k property at 4%, pay $180k into it.
- Ties up more of your cash now, definite regret if prices depress further
+ Lower mortgage, and again a known starting point, simpler. And perhaps now is market bottom?
4. Combination of 2 and 3 -- sell this one and buy a different one.
+'s and -'s -- same, if in same area.
5. Stop paying mortgage, let bank foreclose on you
- Ruins your credit, you need to find a new place to live, probably won't get much cash out (these things don't often go well for the defaulter, it's been rumored)
+ Um, squirrel away a few months rental income that you can hide in a mattress... that is, in a futon, in the van you'll be living in?
A lot of folks got foreclosed on with a double whammy of a mortgage they just can no longer afford due to job loss, and the need to sell fast. Sounds like that's not you. The "loss" is just on paper for now. Except for the lousy loan that's about to get more expensive.