So, I want to sit down with hubby and discuss what we can do to end this debt cycle once & for all. We have been working to go debt free since 2007, and clearly we haven't fully committed, because it's like treading water. Part of the issue is I get sick of being the kill-joy / bad guy who says "we need to cut back on A, B or C" where my husband's solution to everything is to work more & increase income.
Quick & dirty of our backstory - started our marriage with 100K in student loan debt(now paid off), had kids & started accumulating credit card debt(paid off), bought the bigger house that was the fixer-upper in the nice neighborhood that has been drinking our money (boiler, hot water tank, woodpecker rotted siding, etc.) - Enter the panic that our kids are growing up too fast & becoming too attached to electronics & after a flooded out camping trip filled with one too many bear encounters, we bought a small hybrid travel trailer (which needed a truck to pull it... ugh!)
So, Hubby & I are both 40. We have 3 kids (13, 11 & 8) (plus 2 dogs)
Hubby works full time @ a job with great health insurance and a pension/retiree health - net pay is $1,733 bi-weekly
I work 30 hours/week with a bi-weekly of $1,800
Hubby has a 2nd job that brings in ~$200-$500/month
Debts:
Mortgage: $137K (market value ~239K)
2007 Ford Flex: $7,300
2010 Ford Expedition: $17,500
Camper: $18,500
Home Equity: $47,000
Savings:
Savings Account: $1,600
401K: $137K
Roth IRA: 14K
Kids College 529 Savings
13 yr old = 2,800
11 yr old = 1,400
8 yr old = 1,500
If it were up to me, I would move a few miles closer to both of our jobs to a more central spot with biking/walking possibilities with a budget of 165K or less which would bring our property taxes down from $7K+/yr to $3,500/yr and also lower utilities & insurance (would get us an older home ~1400 sqft)
Sell the camper (again, assuming my Evil Queen role as my husband is completely opposed, but we can't afford it) - plus the insurance is $265/yr + maintenance costs
Now that we don't need the truck to pull the camper, trade that in for something smaller, cheaper & better on gas
Is this a dumb plan, or too extreme? I think this is the least that is necessary, but my husband thinks I worry too much. I appreciate your advice!
Please let me know if you need any other details.
Amy