If I spent all day in the studio with my BF I would probably go crazy, but we both work outside the home, and I'm quite social and active in volunteering, etc. so in the end we probably average 3-4 waking hours each day at home together, which is not much when you consider how much of that is spent doing things like showering, getting dressed or preparing food.
I too would like a garden somewhere, but the closest I'll get is a community garden plot. Can't have it all when you want to live in the middle of a big city!