Not sure what's bizarre if people own properties in CA they can easily reach the estate tax threshold. This is not liquid cash and if their largest asset are two houses why wouldn't they still require help? I am not in 'need' to provide for their long term health care, I WANT to help. Is wanting to help my only living relatives a crime? In some cultures demonstrating this level of consideration and forethought is actually appreciated. SMH. The other part is I am dating and when I find the right partner I want to proactive plan and leave her and our child with something. I do not own property, I rent and my income is extremely unstable. So if nothing else this term policy will provide the last lump sum payment to them.
Accumulating that amount is not bizarre. What is bizarre is that in the event that they need help, instead of helping them to sell one of the homes (and emotional/ daily living supports), you would feel responsible for the CASH of the LTC bill.
Who on earth in LTC needs to own two homes? I can understand one, with one of the two parents in LTC and one at home (um, maybe in an extreme example) , but..but...but..?
Is wanting to help my only living relatives a crime? Not a crime, but paying for something for another, that they can clearly afford themselves is treating them like a child, and taking away so much more of their independence than needful, at a time when they are likely to be worried about approaching dependency in their lives.
I want to proactive plan and leave her and our child with something.Sounds great, but... you WILL be leaving something -- all of your earned and saved monies. And your child will be quite old in 30 years, even if not born in 5... That is why I think a 10 or at most 20 year life insurance is much better for you... Time it to when your income will stop, and you will be 100% fully protect (and overprotected as the years advance and you continue to save).;
Bizarre:
You need to be strict about the "principal" of monthly charges and not wanting to pay annually, (on principal), and worried about the increased or non-available CC...or fees (which should be a minor inconvenience to you by now, and relatively small charge) Versus wanting to IMO, grossly overpay to have life insurance through your 60's to age 70+.
Memo to sobezen -- Life insurance was not really INTENDED for 60 year olds plus, only for those in dire circumstances through not saving and having small dependents.... because the chance of dying is greater after age 60!!! Result -- VERY high fees.