Hush and take your 10% - $51K is a damn nice sum to give to your granddaughter. Your grandfather didn't have to leave you anything at all.
You don't know for sure what went on in his head to even include you in the will.
To me, it looks like there is a distinct possibility that he meant to do something nice and honor your mother's memory by giving something to her children - while taking something away from both of his sons.
The uncles - well, they probably hoped their share would increase to 50% each since their sister died, instead they are now getting 10% less.
You know it does no good to perpetuate family drama and bring up things that happened decades ago.
I wouldn't dream of refusing this inheritance - it is a gift specifically meant for you.
If you can't graciously accept it and enjoy it, don't care to forgive and forget even after the man is in his grave then, by all means, refuse the inheritance. Alternatively, you could accept on your mom's behalf and donate it in her name to a cause that was close to her heart.
Whether you see it that way or not, you are not really entitled to anything at all.
Smile and move on - the universe just gave you an opportunity to take away something from your uncles whom you don't seem to be fond of either.
[I'm still figuring out if I should respond but don't want to come off as a greedy jerk.
The amount will end up being around $51,000 to me.
Should I invest it, or simply pay my house down which automatically puts more money down towards the principal with our regular payment?/quote]
It is all about choices in life...