If this was me, I'd probably take one of the new offers. Both offer >30% more income which would exceed my threshold for making a move. As for which of the two, I'm pretty torn, but would probably go of the remote job because I currently work remote and prior to that was working in an office less than 10 miles away. Now I just cannot stand that thought of spending my time just to commute to work. However, the 13% 401k match is really tempting, it's about $10,000 more per year than then 6% match and getting that will really help with accelerating your savings.
While that's what I would do, this is really about you. Do you like/want to work remotely or do you like to be in the office? I'm assuming some remote work or at least a shorter commute is desired for you since you mentioned that as a factor.
As for the job hopping, I'm not experienced with this (working for 10 years, all at same company), but my general opinion at this point is that if you have two offers from other companies after less than 2 years at your current position then there isn't an issue with it in your industry right now. Yes, some future employers may not like it, but it's becoming more and more of the trend of having to switch jobs to move up in level or salary. With this hot job market, I think this is something that will get easily overlooked as long as you fill their needs. This may change if the job market cools off, but nothing to worry about right now.
I think some questions to ask yourself or answer here:
1. How did the two new offers come about? Were you approached or did you seek them out?
2. What prompted your last job change and what was it about your current position that was attractive to you? If it was non-financial, do your current offers also address this or did the promises of your current employer never come to terms?
3. Do you dislike your current job?
4. Have you considered trying to counter any of the offers or go to your current employer with these offers? I have mixed feelings on this as it can get annoying, but think if it's done properly and professionally, then it's a great way to see how much a company wants you and how flexible they can be, both now and in the future. Maybe Option #1 can increase their salary to match #2. Maybe #2 can give you one or two days at home a week. Maybe your current employer can increase your salary and convince you to stay. Some of these may not happen, but you don't know if you don't ask.
Best of luck, tough situation on paper, but overall you are in a great position to get what you want here.