So, I have been thinking about estate planning lately, and am realizing how little I know and how unprepared I am. The first time I read anything about estate planning we really had almost nothing, so I figured I'd worry about it at a later date when there was slightly more than nothing. Well I suppose that time has come. DH and I need to do something, but I'm not sure what. I know the simplest thing to do is to have a will, so we're just going to start with that. But what kind of will is the most mustachian? There are simple wills you can write up yourself, and then you can get more complicated from there.
My husband and I have 5 kids, and in the event of his death our current plan is for everything to pass to me, and visa versa in the event of my death.
I know things can change as the children get older, or whatever. And in the event of us both dying at the same time it gets much more complicated as far as what we might want to do for the kids. So maybe it'd be best to have a lawyer draw something up that can cover this sort of situation? But the sound of the word lawyer makes me want to run and hide. I'm so afraid of it being expensive and me feeling ripped off.
So, what would a responsible mustachian do? And how does one go about finding a trustworthy estate planning attorney (it just sounds like an oxymoron)?
What do you all do?
Signed,
Feeling guilty