Lights and reflective stuff, learn to communicate with drivers, and don't listen to anecdotes about injury incident rates (car crashes are quite common yet everyone drives them). I'd try talking with bicycle commuters instead as they may have a more grounded view on the relationship they have with their motor driven partners in commute.
I'm not going to accuse you of laziness but if you did dig further this specific question has been answered a few times and in some of the links mentioned in your link. :)