Oh! I have an example!
How about the quarter million dollar degree that I can't use? I think that one counts as a dumb luxury purchase.
You didn't know you weren't going to be able to use it, and it wasn't in a field without earning power to offset the cost. Not dumb in your case.
Not dumb at the time, but in the end I could have done anything and chose, like, the ONE degree that would become completely useless, lol.
Thankfully the new degree is a fraction of the cost and gives me a hell of a lot more options.
I would not have wanted to be the one attempting to convince Young Malcat to pursue a different career path. You made the decision you wanted to at the time. You didn't know what your future held. Not dumb at all.
Fair assumption, but it wouldn't have been hard, I basically flipped a coin between what I chose then, what I'm doing now, and a third option. I really just chose based on which interview was the most pleasant, thinking that it reflected on what the school experience would be like.
Oof, I was so, sooooo wrong. Total bait and switch.
I figured out *why* later on when I was part of the admissions committee myself. It was run by a completely different section of the faculty. The nice people.
So yeah, I could have easily chosen differently. However, I don't actually regret choosing a career that I had to give up. I medically retired about a year before all of this leg surgery stuff came up. So I already spent a year in therapy processing losing my career, decompressing, and adjusting.
Had I still had a rich, fulfilling career when I found out about the surgeries, I would have HUGE career stress on top of the surgical stress. Not knowing when I would be able to get back to work, for upwards of 2 years would be unbelievably stressful.
In a way, this whole surgery thing is a million times more bearable *because* my career had already fallen apart. And by the time the surgeries are done, I'll have a new license and a new career.
So roughly the same amount of time off of work, but without the pressure. Plus the degree gives me something to do while I'm lying around feeling helpless with a broken femur.
Win win