Listen, I appreciate folks riding to my defense here, and no matter how uncivil some of the responses have been by OP, I'd really like to call for a bit more civility towards them if anyone else wants to toss in on the thread here. Two wrongs don't make a right.
@Aimza is clearly hurting, and frustrated and angry... and I probably didn't help that too much being so blunt with them out of the gate, and when you're already pushing towards emotional reactions to stuff, sometimes the subelty of language can be lost and can misconstrue statements like, "play stupid games, win stupid prizes," as some sort of personal attack calling them stupid. That was never the intent by me. Are the games and "rewards" played by mobile telecoms stupid? Absolutely. But playing them repeatedly only becomes a less than wise decision if you keep doing the same thing after getting burned, somehow expecting another outcome. I suspect given what was shared in the OP, Aimza was simply naive. There's no shame in that. And even those who still elect to play stupid games after getting burned aren't what I'd call stupid people, because it's the game that's stupid... the person still playing it after the fact at that point is just a glutton for punishment or unnecessarily stubborn if they don't learn from it, which really does nothing for their self worth on its own anyway, and really doesn't need to be dog-piled on if they're not in a place where they're willing to make the change away from that self-destructive behavior in the first place.
All the same, Aimza's anger and frustration is not
wholly unjustified. The problem is how that energy is being channeled, and that's something that takes practice and experience to learn, and it's not really an easy thing
to learn unless you're already clever enough to be a dishonest a-hole in the first place but choose to not take advantage of it. It sucks playing legalball with corporations who try to screw you out of deals over trivialities, and setting those games up in the first place isn't exactly what I'd deem to be a reputable or honorable act. This is the same sort of shenanigans you see with rigged carny midway games and casinos. It's awful, and that level of awful is only compounded by the fact that these sorts of things specifically target the trusting, naive, uneducated and genteel, which are some of the most honorable and vulnerable people in our population. The fact that more isn't done to protect them is heartbreaking, and worse? The fact that the things that
have been done to try and address it has only made it easier for them to get away with it without repercussion because they know how to legally stack the odds in their favor to begin with due to how defined the lines have now become... and a lot of people just don't know that. We're a nation that's lost the capacity for critical thinking, and become a very greedy nation that's easily swayed through the psychological manipulation in advertising for the sake of preying on that greed. Of course, the only way to avoid getting exploited in this way is to just not play the game to begin with, and it's the best response, too, because it's one that leaves at least one less person to exploit. Most anything else is just a Pyrrhic victory.
For those pie-eyed optimists out there, do you remember the first time you got royally hosed by this sort of thing, and how much it hurt and the time it took to process it? This sucks. Even as a born curmudgeonly and angry pessimist, the first time I got burned like this really sucked, even if it didn't surprise me. I want to be an optimist, I want to trust people at their word... but I know that can't be done, so I try to educate with the philosophy of trust but verify. I try to help people learn that second-hand, to learn from my mistakes for their own benefit. But some people have to learn first hand, too... and sticking your hand on a hot stove is gonna hurt. All you can do under that circumstance is try to make sure they pull the right lesson away from the experience if you see them jumping to a wrong conclusion that's still gonna leave them hurting.
Cut 'em some slack.