I'm after some guidance and\or ideas for our current FIRE\work\housing plans. Apologies for the lengthy post, but I thought that including enough detail would be useful to get the picture.
We are in a good financial position, however we're at a decision point about how to approach the upcoming years. My wife and I are in our early 40's, with two kids <5. We have no debt, own our own house (350k $AUD), plus investments totaling 1.5 million ($AUD).
With an annual spend of ~60k, and a SWR rate of 3.5%, our FIRE# is just over 1.7 million. I'd also like to have a ~120K buffer on top of the FIRE number, so we need just over 1.8 million. I know there are potential options along the lines of reducing expenses and upping the SWR, reducing the buffer etc, however I'd just like to leave that side of it as is for now. That puts us ~320k short. Not an insignificant amount, but hopefully attainable in ~5 years with a combination of savings from salary (saving around 24k p.a.) and a 3.5% ROI on our existing investments.
The main issue\question we have relates to where we live. We live about 35-55 minutes to the Melbourne CBD by train (express vs slow trains). However my wife currently works out the other side of the city, adding another ~30 minutes to the journey). She works 4 days\week for a consultancy, so theoretically they could place her onsite with a client anywhere (CBD would be good!).
This is clearly not ideal, so we can either move or she could look for a CBD based job (there are no such jobs where we currently live). I'm currently not working, as I'm staying at home looking after the kids. My wife and I have a similar earning capacity. We swapped roles a while back as she wanted to go back to work.
It seems straight forward enough to say that my wife should get a CBD based job, however the reality is we're not really crazy about where we live now. If we move somewhere closer to the CBD, the housing cost gets ugly very quickly. In theory, we can afford to buy, but it would wipe out the vast majority (if not all) of our investments (goodbye FIRE). I'm not really willing to enter the housing market in Melbourne anyway.
So we can rent in Melbourne at somewhere around 600-700pw. The cost of this could be partially met by selling our house and investing the proceeds. The rest would come from my wife's salary, which means we would save nothing. My wife could go from 4>5 days p\w at work, which would put our savings rate on par with what they are now.
In simple terms, moving and renting would mean working an extra day per week to meet our housing costs, while also saving towards FIRE at the same rate as we are now. If you then factor in the rent payments to our annual expenses (+30k minimum, which is +50% on top of current expenses), then the FIRE# and FIRE timelines get ridiculous, to the point where RE is not possible.
We're not complaining at all, we are just unsure what to do. FIRE seems very close at times, then I think we're massively underweight on housing and we're not close to FIRE after all.
Work in our respective professions is really tied to Melbourne (or Sydney etc), unless we are willing to take a ~50% pay cut to work in some other regional area. The work would also be of a very different nature and perhaps not too appealing. Our friends\family are also located in and around Melbourne, so we're not to keen on moving away, and we do like Melbourne as well.
Our thoughts are all a bit muddled as to what to do. I think we really need an outside perspective on this, so we'd really appreciate your insight!