I think that battery is obscuring what would be a sure thing. I bet it's at least $10k before Sun Power's markup. It might be as much as half of your total cost. Maybe battery backup is worth that much to you, but it's obscuring the breakeven period of the solar panels.
I don't understand why battery backup should be necessary since OP has an electric car. Not trying to by snotty-- I don't know why its not more common for this type of hookup. I know a guy that has enabled his Leaf to power back to his house, but it was DIY type. Is there something against current code for this?
It seems Tesla has been voiding warrantees on cars that were used to power houses, but I don't think electrical code looks at it any different than they do a generator. To do it safely, you need a disconnect so you don't backfeed the grid from your house. Without it, you could electrocute linemen working to restore power.
Strictly economically, the battery should be compared to other solutions: buying a gas generator for power outages, replacing all refrigerator contents when the power is out too long, renting a hotel room with power when the power is out. In my area, my house hasn't lost power for more than 4 hours in 11 years I've lived here, so I have little interest in spending money up front to prepare for power loss contingencies.
Peak shaving with battery power is an interesting angle. I'm surprised utilities haven't implement their own battery power storage with bryan995's numbers. At a $0.46/kwh differential between peak and non-peak, you should be able to make some money. Take the Tesla Powerwall, 13.5kWh capacity, warranty for 37.8 mWh when used for non-solar demand. If you assume it immediately loses all it's non-warranted capacity, and ceased to function once it's used 37.8 mWh, you should be able net $17,400 over 10 years peak shaving for SDGE. I saw a cost of $10,500 for an installed powerwall that would make this profitable enough.
A warning on peak shaving: It used to be mid-day was peak hours because of building cooling loads, but that's no longer the case due to the amount of solar power being generated. If everyone jumps on the above powerwall installation, the delta between peak and non-peak charges will reduce just as the solar power removed the mid-day peak.