First off please don't take anything I say offensively. Are you a nurse? Do you have experience with nursing schools? I have actually done extensive research on crna's (nurse anesthetists,) I was interested in pursuing that path but now I have pretty much ruled it out. Crna education is an entirely different beast then NP education. Crna schools are actually required by there accrediting agency to have all students have at least a year of experience in critical care (Most schools require it to be in an adult icu, others will accept ER experience.) In fact, all crna schools are going to be mandatory doctorates by 2025 as entry to practice, which is not true of NP's. Back to NP schools, many don't require experience as an RN at all. In fact, to your point about school being at least five years for NP's there are programs which are accelerated 3 year programs for people with previous bachelor degrees in a separate field without any previous medical experience at all. You read that right, you can go from a bachelors in business to a fully licensed NP in 3 years.
You are right you can teach associate degree nurses with a masters degree, but in order to teach people to be an NP, you must be an NP with a doctorates. Actually the only program in my state for the NP specialty I am interested in is 50kish for a masters, 80k for the doctorates. Now, I could do it cheaper if I was able to get instate tuition in another state, but that adds a whole other level of complexity to the conversation. I could also do online programs but again it adds complexity to the conversation, so I decided I would use one scenario to make the conversation as simple as possible. By being open to both are you implying I may be admitted to a doctoral program and not a masters? If that is the case we could explore that farther. What do you mean a doctorate of nursing is 3 years at best? Are you counting the bachelor/associate degree in that calculation or just the post Bachelors? When I wrote the op I was specifically talking post Bachelors. About the experience, like I said, I intend to work at least 2 years before applying and I am open to changing them if need be during that time.