How I find those scenarios work best is for the person who cuts back on work, or quits completely, to handle the household tasks, errands, etc. That way, when the full time worker “isn’t” working, the time spent together is 100% doing things you enjoy.
I am 31 and my wife is 25. We’ve been together about 7 years, and my wife has worked maybe 1 of those years. I work a lot, and in turn, my wife is a machine. She handles everything while I work. Groceries, cooking, laundry, cleaning, appts, errands, etc. With that in mind, all our time together when I’m not working we get to go to the gym, movies, dinner, beach, etc. We spend our time together doing things we enjoy, I absolutely love it and appreciate what my wife does. We don’t spend sundays doing laundry, or groceries, etc., because all that stuff is already done. In terms of a “stay at home wife” I surely hit the jackpot.