Yeah, I was pondering buying and living in it half of each year. But yep, the 55 thing was an issue. But, you've just hinted that all I have to do is find a 55 yo American to marry! Except I want to keep my kid, too.
No SBLWs for families, hey? (Very quiet, mellow families who don't like screaming kids? Or screaming adults?)
We don't need kids specifically. LF prefers people much older or much younger than own age, and I'm not a big believer in grouping people by age. And there's always kids at public pools, playgrounds, etc, so it's always been easy to get him hooked up for doses. But for sure there needs to be stuff for him to enjoy—people to talk lots with, and any activities. He likes old people activities. Too bad SBLW won't let him in.