Have you looked at YNAB? It's not a spreadsheet precisely, but you enter your own stuff, and you don't have to identify the bank--my accounts are just called "chequing," "savings," "RRSP," etc, so it wouldn't make me any more vulnerable to identity theft. It syncs via Dropbox, so I can pick it up anywhere, but it's under password protection.
Similarly, if you want low-tech (or free), a password-locked spreadsheet on Dropbox might beat a Google spreadsheet.