I have done something similar to this with acupuncture with Aetna before. The acupuncturist did not accept insurance, but my insurance covers Acupuncture. I paid out of pocket for my visit and had him print me a receipt with the relevant billing codes for insurance. There is an Aetna claims form you can print out and mail or fax in. It was a little tough to find on the website, if I remember correctly. They reimbursed me for some of the cost, not all. Not sure if it had anything to do with me submitting a claim afterwards and the acupuncturist not doing it, or if they just don't fully cover the cost of that type of visit.