Hey everyone,
My best friend is engaged to a loser. He's 40 and the first time he met me he proudly stated to me he had never had a job for more than a year. That was years ago and yes, his statement is still true.
I've known my friend for almost 20 years. We went to school and uni together. She is smart and hard-working, but she's been influenced negatively by him. She has become a flake like him. She is always tired or overwhelmed like him. She's lost her ambition, like him.
They have no money of course. They want kids in the next two years. They're too poor to have a wedding. They constantly eat out, ride in taxis, and generally spend all the money they somehow manage to earn.
Can I give her a face punch? Or should I just keep my mouth shut whenever they talk about how they stupidly spent their money?