I am not on commissions, but I am self-employed and thus have an extremely variable income. I've had months of $30,000 and I've had months where I did not send out invoices (and thus had zero income).
I think you may be looking at this somewhat backwards -- a budget should not be "how much can I spend this month." If you think, "Oh, I made X this month, therefore I can spend Y this month," then you are thinking about it the wrong way.
To me, a budget means just knowing exactly what your monthly expenses are. This should be an average you come up with by looking at your financial data for about the last 12 months. How much do you spend on your mortgage? Gas? Electric? Cars? Fuel? Insurance? Car insurance? Healthcare? Groceries? Etc. You also want to know how much you spend socially/discretionary.
This number absolutely positively should not change whether you have a "good" month or a "bad" month. This number is what it is (and it should be as low as possible), and you should manage your cash flow accordingly.
My wife and I spend about $4,000/month. She nets about $3,000-3,500 a month, which means I need to cover the difference. I do this by transferring money from savings or from my business. We usually keep about $10,000 in an emergency fund so there is never really a sweat regarding moving money around.
But when I have a great month? That goes to paying off various debts or investing. My lifestyle and monthly activity does not really change.
The lone exception here is yes, one day when I got a $16,000 check, I went home for the day. That was nice. And maybe we went out and got a pizza. But I absolutely did not go out and buy a $1,000 TV or anything stupid.
Long story short: a variable income is not a reason to have variable expenses.