I have to admit, I resent the implication that I didn't do research and am giving out dangerous information.
You know, I thought about sending this via PM to you
@slappy, but decided it might be better to post publicly.
Here's the thing about me, I care more about grounded truth and reality than I do about people's feelings, especially the feelings of people who give bad or dangerous advice to others, whether by ignorance or malice. You yourself admitted and confirmed that the vet told you that pine pellets can be hazardous to some cats, and that you didn't know that. After all, you were shocked to find out that some cats will sleep in their litter boxes, and doing so with pine pellets can cause long term health problems! That alone confirms that you didn't actually do thorough research and you are potentially giving out dangerous information to others, but all you heard was, "it's safe for
my cat," and you chose resentment as a response to that news over registering the non-zero risk as being validated by your own credible authority and trying to dismiss the science that confirms that risk because the research details the toxicity of the oils itself inside the plant, instead of the industrial byproduct and how those oils relate to it, the very subject of the concern.
As
@Sibley and I have jokingly stated on more than one occasion in these sorts of threads, is that
cats are weird. I've seen cats chew on furniture and power cords, try to eat carpet, eat bread and waffles, eat and swallow anything if it's small and chewy enough, lick bags...
Dust can be breathed in, and it can get trapped in fur. Diabetic cats tend to get club foot with any litter they use because of neuropathy, which is one of the other risks of clumping litter and ingestion (and I forgot about that risk when I talked about clumping litter earlier and discussed silicosis, my apologies). Cats bathe themselves and process the dirt from their bodies through their digestive tracts. There is a non-trivial risk for some cats with this sort of litter, even the kiln dried official stuff, specifically because of the terpines present in pine wood. Your vet even confirmed this. What may be statistically "safe" for one, is not safe for all. The warning is justified.
When you give advice to others, it's not about you. It's about them, and you know as much about them as they disclose to you. You have as much right or authority to make moral or ethical choices for other people as I do, and that right to do so is
zero.
We both have the right to call out and challenge and highlight those problems in discussion, but we cannot make those choices for others. You chose to make that risk, and it may be a risk you feel comfortable taking, even justified by your own framework... but it was a risk founded on incomplete information, and a risk not everyone is willing to take. The signal to noise ratio on the internet is awful, and doing due diligence is getting harder, and genuine problems worth considering are getting lost and buried in a sea of noise of personal, self-centered anecdotes wrapped in ignorance passing as advice. After all, pine toxicity with cats is not common knowledge anymore. You have to know what you're looking for if you want to find the risks to begin with.
You didn't know, and that's okay. But you know now, and you have no excuse to not disclose the risk in the future when discussing the topic at hand with others.
When I give advice, it's never about me. I have nearly a decade of that philosophy lived on these forums, and I do it because I want the same level of detail and disclosure when I ask advice, and have been burned by others not doing so. I never cite myself as an absolute authority, always recommend doing further research to cover where I'm ignorant... but I always warn about downsides if I know them, and let the other make their own decision. It's why I read terms of service agreements with MVNOs, and disclose about the advertising opt-out with RedPocket. It's why I discuss the finer points of copyright law when talking about streaming services. It's why, when P'tel was in the early stages of going under a few years back, that I personally PM'd every single person on these forums that I knew were using P'tel
because of my advice, to prepare to port their number out to another provider before the official announcement even came down. I care more about informing the person asking questions and answering those questions when possible with well researched information, than your or anyone else's feelings, or even my own. A lot more people on these forums in the early days used to be likewise, and I miss that. But if that philosophy makes me an hermaphroditic troll, as has been implied by someone else on these forums recently, then feel free to just call me Pat Bjergtrolde... I guess. ᕙ༼ຈل͜ຈ༽ᕗ