I recently hired a live-in childcare/housekeeping worker. She exchanges labor for room and board, no cash exchange.
We got along well when interviewing, and I liked how she interacted with my son, but the longer she lives in, the more I see the enormous stress level in her life and the negative attitude that comes with it. I'd like to help, but it's awfully forward in this scenario to give financial advice or anything like that. She's 20 years older than me. I am well off, both from a lucky start in life (upbringing and SES) and having good financial sense. She has neither of those advantages.
Do I need to just leave this alone? I'd not like to have this stress level and negativity in my home/around my toddler, and when I ask what's up, she tells me straight-up that she's stressed about needing shocks for her car ($300). She has lots of old debt, low income, and owes $5000 on an 8-year-old $5000 car, with $400 monthly payments. This is not something I can really elate to.