I'd be down with a beta swap if you'd like. My romance is about 65K words, though.
Contemporary romance (well, set in 2001), I'd say it's more than PG, closer to R, language is definitely R
I'm on the second or third draft, depending on the chapter and would love some feedback on some new material I've integrated in the last month.
PM if you're interested in a swap.
I'm a pretty gentle critter, as well as an trained editor, so I won't shred your book, even if you want me to :).