I'm a Fed w/3 boys (11, 9, 7) and DW. We are all healthy (luckily) and don't have any underlying conditions. I've always been so intimidated by an HSA, and we just keep BCBS each year as it seems "safe". I don't understand people who say "I love my insurance". I HATE insurance, I don't want to think about medical conditions, have to think about insurance when you are in need, think about going to x or y hospital or doctor, think about how much to put in Flex Spending each year and try to guestimate. I have $1k left over from our $2k we put in this year and I'm scrambling to buy sunscreen and tylenol and stuff since I can only carry over $550. I just hate the entire process, I want to try my best to stay healthy and then pay what I need to pay w/o thinking about any of it. That being said, I've kept BCBS b/c it's safe and I don't have to think about it, but know we pay a lot. With COVID I'm even more scared to go to an HSA but realize w/the math it's probably best to do an HSA and then max out, but also no clue what will happen to insurance over the next 5,10,20 years, carrying it into retirement, etc.
Should I take the plunge as well and go to HSA, or w/my current fears is it best to just stick to BCBS, throw in $1k/year for flex spending for medical and call it a day? I have no worries about losing or gaining $5k/day in the market, but Medical Insurance just seems like a crap shoot at best with so many unknowns about what is the best bang for your buck. And if you did have an accident that needed an ambulance or a week stay in the hospital, is your HSA going to ruin you? Or is a healthy family of 5 w/3 young boys the poster candidate for HSA's?