This may be a long and rambling post, but here it goes:
This was me four years ago, almost identical situation.
The first thing I did is look at moving VERY close to the office, even if it would cause my mortgage to go from the low 100's to quadruple that. I decided life wasn't worth sitting in the car. (I got close and was slow-looking, but lost out on one really nice house).
Secondly I started looking for a more mentally stimulating job inside the company. I knew I had to work for another 3-4 years based on net worth, market returns, ect, so I decided its time to test my skill sets and see if this is something I could do. I think if I retired without trying it, I'd be really disappointing. Is there something else you can/want to do in the company, even if it involves a geographic move? I ended up moving twice in a year, the first one was tough, the second spot was much better.
I've also moved/bought within three miles of my office and much closer to the urban centers this time. Its not a complete wash, but you'll be amazed at how quickly your gas/maintenance budget comes down when you're not commuting. Oh, and the time. As someone who used to have to be out of the house by 6:50am, I can't tell you how nice it is to leave at 8am some mornings because of how close I live. There is a significant reduction in life stress.
The other thing I didn't fully get at that time, my stress at work has gone down as financial independence has creeped in. I'd like to make it another 14-17 months, but if I got fired tomorrow, I'd be okay. The best case scenario would be a layoff, which would make me want to hug my boss. The RSUs all vest immediately in a layoff separation and I'd hit my number tomorrow. If you're used to living in a $250,000 house, that # will creep up on you quickly.
This geographic/position change has also exposed me to a better network of people and I think there will be a lot of part time/consulting opportunities if/when I retire.
I don't know if I'd do it again knowing what I know now, but its been an adventure.