shelivesthedream, lol that is why I am also a terrible parent! When it comes to enforcing rules, I tend to apply the golden rule and think, oh, well everyone gets a second (third, fourth, millionth) chance.
I'll remember to "apply the consequences consistently and fairly".
Mind you, as a parent, I am getting better. But I have to constantly remind myself to stick to whatever the consequence is, it doesnt come naturally (like it does for my husband, who is also a stellar boss).