I just bought a 2006 ford ranger for 3.5k on craigslist. 140k miles, meticulously maintained, new tires, remote start, etc. etc.
Please tell me it's 2WD and automatic so I don't have to die of envy.
I, too, would love to have your truck. If it's a 4WD, that was a seriously find.
Anyway, back to OP, who does your maintenance? If you DIY, you can afford to drive a car that needs more frequent repairs. Assuming that you (or your spouse) don't do your own maintenance, I would look for a vehicle with lower miles regardless of age. You already drive your cars until the wheels fall off, so in my opinion, it is completely reasonable to spend a little more on something that will likely last longer.
I personally buy whatever I want within the parameters of under 10k, under 70k miles, solid mechanics and decent fuel economy. We're always willing to do some minor body work to get a low miles, late model vehicle at a good price. My husband's a mechanic though, so repairs and maintenance don't hit us as hard. If I were you I'd look at the total cost of ownership of several different cars, not just Hondas, before making a purchasing decision.
DL;DR: No, 8k is not too much for reliable car with low(ish) miles.