My wife wanted a Disney Wedding and we had about 90 guests. Not willing to spend 35k, we really worked the system and did a back-door Disney Wedding. We didn't go through the Disney Wedding planners which required us to have certain photographers and florists. Not to mention it costs $950/30mins for a Disney Character!@!@##$
We ended up buying out a character restaurant in the Walt Disney Swan and Dolphin (apparently this hotel carries the Disney name but is NOT part of Disney?!@).
At the end, the food was menu pricing, meaning 35 dollars/plate for a seafood buffet with included individually plated crab stuffed lobster tails. We had Goofy and Pluto there free of charge. Total out the door cost for the entire wedding was 16.5k (5k spent on food, wine and beer).