Yesterday I had to go to an overpriced fancy tea with friends, as part of a wedding. The tea came to $54 per person, a lot, but since I had never gone, and I am in a good financial position, I went.
After we had finished, there were two leftover scones. A few people had mentioned how it was uncouth and so class-less to ask for the remaining food to-go. When the server asked, "Would you like me to wrap these up to-go?", no one spoke up. I then said, "I would. I will take them to my husband who will enjoy them, since he didn't get to come." Honestly, as if I give two fucks about what a server thinks of me being "class-less"! Anyway, all of my friends, who live paycheck to paycheck, think I am cheap.
As soon as the server left, my friend, who is the most broke, said that she wanted the scones but that she was embarrassed to ask for them, so she asked me for them! Her excuse was that she knew that I would ask for them, and that if she asked me, I would give them to her. Of course I gave them to her...