Honeyfunds are stupid. First, you aren't buying what you think you are buying (like a candlelit dinner or something). The couple can spend it on whatever they want. Second, the website takes a percent. So you're really giving them money except you are paying more than they are actually getting. If someone doesn't want gifts, the correct thing to do is make a small registry. When I see a small registry, I think, oh, the couple probably wants cash.