So back when I first started reading MMM and looking into some of his strategies I spent a good long while quietly running some scenarios and numbers and became increasingly excited about this whole lifestyle. Now it wasn't hard to convince my girlfriend that this was a winning strategy as she was already paying back loans aggressively and we both are very excited about our futures. The problem lies in my friends and family and their opinion on this matter.
I really wasn't looking to share my plans with the world but when I get really excited about something I tend to want to talk about it with someone. At first I confided in my parents and shared some of my budget ideas, calculators, savings rates, and investment ideas with them. Instantly I was met with cautions about "unrealistic expectations", warnings that "things come up", and stories of their frugal lifestyle, spending, and lack of extra money when they first hit the job market way back in the late 80s working dual salary as a lawyer and a computer engineer... How could you not save money with those jobs?
Now on to the next part... So I guess I didn't express to my parents that I didn't want everybody and their mothers to know "hey I want to retire in my very early 30s". Next thing I know, every event I'm at people are like "So I hear your gonna retire at 30, Good luck with that" with sarcastic/yea right tones and people asking me to explain how I could possibly do that and then interrupting me as I hesitantly explain telling me about all the expenses from cable bills, car payments, kids, and cell phones I'm forgetting about that I don't and won’t have. Basically they stop listening after I explain to them that I don't have cable because it's no longer relevant to them because of the human basic need for cable television. Lately I've just started telling people I don't want to talk about it.
Also, I'm in a group chat with some friends from high school and I guess they got word too. I like to cook and freeze meals for the week so I only have to cook one day a week and sometimes I send pictures to my friends saying like "mmm chicken and yellow rice" or" yum homemade bread". I get shot back about 5 responses to the tune of "Oh man but is it under 10 cents per serving, don't break the bank" or "Only worth it if it's 1 cent a slice" or "don't eat up all your retirement money".
I'm just shocked at the pushback I received from such exciting topics. People should be asking "how can I accomplish this?" which results in awesome mustacian conversations instead of just bashing me. I don't see why, in any way whatsoever, you should make fun of someone for saving money. Their cautioning me like I'm making a huge mistake and I'm going to ruin my life or something but what harm whatsoever can come from saving... It’s crazy... at any point in the future if I decide "Hey I'm done... I'm going to live like everyone else" I would be FAR better off with the savings I’ve accumulated.
I'm a confused mustacian… I just don’t get it =/
EDIT* This situation has gotten much better as I've pretty much stopped talking about it completely. I didn't let them tear me down though still saving ~75%. Thanks for all the comments I enjoyed reading them all.