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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2200 on: May 16, 2015, 02:06:39 PM »
Fellow mom venting:

Ugh. I feel your pain. DH is a lifelong comic and autograph collector. He spends $30 minimum each week on comics. It's always been a non-negotiable in our relationship but it especially pisses me off when I'm on mat leave. And he won't tell me what he spent at the Calgary Comic Show. Oh, and he's 40.

I've suggested to him that if he sold, the money would cover our daughter's education. But he sees them as his legacy that he needs to pass down. Because, you know, every young woman wants to inherit about 35,000 comic books.‎

Yup. 12 years with the man and I still don't get it. And not only do they just sit there. I pay for them to sit there in a storage locker in Kingston.

The kicker: it's ‎2886 km | 1789 miles from Calgary to Kingston so that locker is not getting cleared out any time soon.‎


The vast majority of comics books are barely worth their initial sale price.  I'm trying to sell my collection, and amongst 200 comics I found just a few worth more than $10.  I got $300 for one on Ebay, but I'll be lucky to get $2 each for the rest.  I have comics that are 40 years old, and even in perfect condition most of them max out at $5 each.  In hindsight, the money would have been better put in a CD and just let sit for all those years.

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« Reply #2201 on: May 16, 2015, 08:34:16 PM »
Fellow mom venting:

The kicker: it's ‎2886 km | 1789 miles from Calgary to Kingston so that locker is not getting cleared out any time soon.‎

How does that even work???  You take a major vacation periodically to visit your comic collection?

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2202 on: May 17, 2015, 04:30:16 AM »
They moved to Calgary. Not sure how long ago. Definitely not in the last four months.

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« Reply #2203 on: May 17, 2015, 05:19:06 AM »
Not FB but on a forum I'm on, a person complaining about working all hours and not having any money. Then she comments on her new car payment and new upgraded phone.

Not FB but posted on a different message board

"We took some money out of our son's college fund to buy a very extravagant and expensive bottle of bourbon. And then we drank over half of the bottle while playing video games. No regrets. "

Wow!

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2204 on: May 17, 2015, 09:29:17 AM »
Friends little girl, post on FB that she save up and spent a few hundred dollars on her first Coach purse. Picture of her hold it. At least it's not credit card debt, but I'm sure it will turn eventually into that.


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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2205 on: May 17, 2015, 12:31:44 PM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2206 on: May 17, 2015, 01:24:56 PM »
FB post from my fitness instructor (who is a kick-ass instructor, but wow, is he materialistic and shallow):

"The time has come to get a new car! Do I get the BMW 328i X-drive or the Audi A4 or the Volvo S60? (All models 2015) Please comment below! Thanks!"

Most of the comments are from people weighing in on the cars (many of whom have BMWs or Audis).  A few of them are saying cautionary things, like: "You already have a car," or "If you are up to date on saving for retirement.  If not, pinch yourself and remember that you just want the car, you don't need it," or "Wow, being a fitness instructor must pay better than I thought."  All of those comments are completely ignored.   

Literally ONE DAY after this post, he posts a status update from a BMW dealership: "Picking up my new car!!!"  With a shiny new photo of said car.


Aaaannnndddd update:

This same fitness instructor, who bought this new BMW on MAY 8, just posted this status on FB:

"Apple Watch -- GO! Any of you who have one, would love to hear what you think of it. Thinking of getting one!"

SMDH.  Already two cheerleaders are telling him to "go for it!"  What do you think the odds are that there will be a follow-up post tomorrow with a pic of his new Apple Watch?

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« Reply #2207 on: May 17, 2015, 02:22:22 PM »
What do you think the odds are that there will be a follow-up post tomorrow with a pic of his new Apple Watch?

0%. You can't walk into the store to buy one. They're still fulfilling pre-orders.

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« Reply #2208 on: May 17, 2015, 02:34:52 PM »
What do you think the odds are that there will be a follow-up post tomorrow with a pic of his new Apple Watch?

0%. You can't walk into the store to buy one. They're still fulfilling pre-orders.

Ha!  I stand corrected.  :)

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2209 on: May 17, 2015, 03:23:42 PM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Yes, it absolutely is.  This was actually really hard for me to resist when we moved and I got a washer/dryer set.  I just got plain white so that I could replace easily if one broke; but man, those pretty red ones were calling for me... at double the price.

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2210 on: May 17, 2015, 04:49:44 PM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Yes, it absolutely is.  This was actually really hard for me to resist when we moved and I got a washer/dryer set.  I just got plain white so that I could replace easily if one broke; but man, those pretty red ones were calling for me... at double the price.

I suddenly want wildly clashing appliances. Red and purple or something

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2211 on: May 17, 2015, 07:11:11 PM »
FB post from my fitness instructor (who is a kick-ass instructor, but wow, is he materialistic and shallow):

"The time has come to get a new car! Do I get the BMW 328i X-drive or the Audi A4 or the Volvo S60? (All models 2015) Please comment below! Thanks!"

Most of the comments are from people weighing in on the cars (many of whom have BMWs or Audis).  A few of them are saying cautionary things, like: "You already have a car," or "If you are up to date on saving for retirement.  If not, pinch yourself and remember that you just want the car, you don't need it," or "Wow, being a fitness instructor must pay better than I thought."  All of those comments are completely ignored.   

Literally ONE DAY after this post, he posts a status update from a BMW dealership: "Picking up my new car!!!"  With a shiny new photo of said car.


Aaaannnndddd update:

This same fitness instructor, who bought this new BMW on MAY 8, just posted this status on FB:

"Apple Watch -- GO! Any of you who have one, would love to hear what you think of it. Thinking of getting one!"

SMDH.  Already two cheerleaders are telling him to "go for it!"  What do you think the odds are that there will be a follow-up post tomorrow with a pic of his new Apple Watch?

Hey at least that is tangentially related to his work. It could be beneficial to help others he works with and instructs?

... thinking on the bright side :)

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2212 on: May 18, 2015, 07:25:41 AM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Yes, it absolutely is.  This was actually really hard for me to resist when we moved and I got a washer/dryer set.  I just got plain white so that I could replace easily if one broke; but man, those pretty red ones were calling for me... at double the price.

I suddenly want wildly clashing appliances. Red and purple or something

Have known people with fancy new high tech washers/dryers they caused nothing but problems, to many sensors and dials.  Wont let you wash jeans on a tshirt setting...  Meanwhile my stupid simple turn knob dryer comes on has just worked for years.


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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2213 on: May 18, 2015, 07:30:34 AM »

Have known people with fancy new high tech washers/dryers they caused nothing but problems, to many sensors and dials.  Wont let you wash jeans on a tshirt setting...  Meanwhile my stupid simple turn knob dryer comes on has just worked for years.

Our 9 year old dryer is a white elephant. Gets used a few times a year when the laundry load gets overwhelming.

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« Reply #2214 on: May 18, 2015, 07:41:52 AM »

Have known people with fancy new high tech washers/dryers they caused nothing but problems, to many sensors and dials.  Wont let you wash jeans on a tshirt setting...  Meanwhile my stupid simple turn knob dryer comes on has just worked for years.
Yeah, we're coming up on the 10-year anniversary of our plain ol' electromechanical washer and dryer.  Zero problems except for a door switch on the washer.

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« Reply #2215 on: May 18, 2015, 08:26:21 AM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

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« Reply #2216 on: May 18, 2015, 11:40:42 AM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Yes, it absolutely is.  This was actually really hard for me to resist when we moved and I got a washer/dryer set.  I just got plain white so that I could replace easily if one broke; but man, those pretty red ones were calling for me... at double the price.

My husband refuses to own a dryer.  So, alas, we are way behind the adequacy curve...

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2217 on: May 18, 2015, 12:04:26 PM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

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« Reply #2218 on: May 18, 2015, 12:10:25 PM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

I like this idea. Where did you find one?

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2219 on: May 18, 2015, 01:23:41 PM »
In person from a FB friend so I'm gonna count it :)

"We're still paying on medical bills from my wife's surgery in December. Our part after insurance was $2,000 and we can't afford that so we're on a payment plan of $175/month. We're putting it on a credit card and it's already up to like $800 this month from other bills"

Followed not too long by:

"Oh, and the wife might let me go to Defcon in Vegas!"

Where he will spend top dollar on hotel, food, and probably find new toys he absolutely MUST have.

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« Reply #2220 on: May 18, 2015, 01:48:37 PM »
This one may invite minor facepunches, but it's funny how FB feedback can be just as illuminating as actual posts.
DW has been one of the biggest influences in helping me turn down my consumer instincts, but (ironically) in the last year we have encountered more situations where she wanted to spend money that I didn't. She has finally hit her first year of decent earnings after a decade of school (no exaggeration) and initial struggles with underemployment and low part-time wages in her field, and she's kinda itchy to at least see a little of her new earnings turned into nice things.
Anyway, after a few good months (and a relative windfall last week) we let ourselves out to get a few things for our downsized house, and since her 2-year-old purse was starting to fall apart, I sprang for a $35 replacement from Target. Amused by the glee with which she slung all her goods between the two, I posted a picture of the process for our friends - and I guess people actually *do* see my posts, because I got dozens of "likes" and "oohs" and "ahhs" and "whatbrandisthats". I guess they just don't find the articles about lifestyle modifications, investing, or renewable energy as interesting. :P

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2221 on: May 18, 2015, 02:02:10 PM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

I like this idea. Where did you find one?

Back then I found it in the yellow pages under appliances stores -- used. They had a storefront in the cheaper sketchier part of town. I paid $40 for delivery and they had a 6 month warranty. It's actually a genius side hustle or small business for someone who knows how to fix appliances. Haul away broken machines for free or buy them from somewhere, fix them and turn a decent profit.

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2222 on: May 18, 2015, 02:12:49 PM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

I like this idea. Where did you find one?

Back then I found it in the yellow pages under appliances stores -- used. They had a storefront in the cheaper sketchier part of town. I paid $40 for delivery and they had a 6 month warranty. It's actually a genius side hustle or small business for someone who knows how to fix appliances. Haul away broken machines for free or buy them from somewhere, fix them and turn a decent profit.

I think I've seen them on Craigslist quite a bit also.

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2223 on: May 18, 2015, 02:17:47 PM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

I like this idea. Where did you find one?

Back then I found it in the yellow pages under appliances stores -- used. They had a storefront in the cheaper sketchier part of town. I paid $40 for delivery and they had a 6 month warranty. It's actually a genius side hustle or small business for someone who knows how to fix appliances. Haul away broken machines for free or buy them from somewhere, fix them and turn a decent profit.

Absolutely.Right now I'm renting but am looking to buy a house and will need to furnish it with a washer/dryer, and would love to buy a second hand set, especially as older sets were designed to last.

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« Reply #2224 on: May 18, 2015, 02:30:54 PM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Yes, it absolutely is.  This was actually really hard for me to resist when we moved and I got a washer/dryer set.  I just got plain white so that I could replace easily if one broke; but man, those pretty red ones were calling for me... at double the price.

I suddenly want wildly clashing appliances. Red and purple or something

Have known people with fancy new high tech washers/dryers they caused nothing but problems, to many sensors and dials.  Wont let you wash jeans on a tshirt setting...  Meanwhile my stupid simple turn knob dryer comes on has just worked for years.

I had the fancy front loader set at my old house - I still overpaid, but at least I had a corporate discount, and I only got the white ones.  They worked well overall, until a small part of the washer gasket broke in the 4th year.  Cost me almost $350 to replace, and the poor repair guy had to take half the machine apart to replace it!

I should note, we are a two person household, we do two loads/week, so these machines were not abused at all.

I was done at that point, so I sold the set w/the house.  In the new house, I bought a very basic White toploader set, which works great.  My laundry room is now a normal size, so these fit way better than front loaders, but I see the sadness in people's eyes when I show them the house and they don't see shiny, pretty colored front loaders on overpriced pedestals.  I just laugh to myself and think of the difference sitting in my Vanguard account...

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Re: Overheard on Facebook
« Reply #2225 on: May 18, 2015, 03:10:47 PM »
Absolutely.Right now I'm renting but am looking to buy a house and will need to furnish it with a washer/dryer, and would love to buy a second hand set, especially as older sets were designed to last.
Did this when we downsized in fall, even leaving the nice new one we had recently bought with DW's family $... why move two washers?
I've had generally luck in my home and two rentals over the  years with mostly cheap Craigslist units. There are lots of guys out there who know how to keep them running, and service calls are cheap.

My only cautionary advice: there is more than one way that a washer can break, and more than one way that it can overflow and flood your house. Don't ever leave a newly purchased used washer running and leave the house! My first time it was just a pressure hose that popped loose in transit, and it flooded the entire bottom floor of my newly built $175K townhouse while I was away (for hours). That night sucked. Our latest set had a defective control switch - a cheap and easy repair once we found the problem. Had a minor spillage before that, but fortunately we caught it early.

In the new house, I bought a very basic White toploader set, which works great.
I'll never buy anything else (except maybe a stack unit if/when we move back to Hawaii and every square foot counts).

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« Reply #2226 on: May 18, 2015, 06:38:12 PM »
To add to the washing machine foam (ha!), I had a long conversation with my appliance repair guy* about how to buy used washers not long ago. His recommendation was to get a 10-12 year old Whirlpool or Kenmore top-load with an agitator. He said you can usually find them on Craigslist for under $250 and they should last another 20 years with only minor repairs. If you've got to buy new, he suggested avoiding a front-load or a top-load without agitator because they're made to be replaced every 5 years.

(I'll admit to hiring out appliance repair; I don't have any mechanical aptitude.)

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« Reply #2227 on: May 18, 2015, 09:49:34 PM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Literally just saw nearly verbatim as on local FB garage sale group. (And I don't live in TX, so I don't think its the same one.) Must be an epidemic.

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« Reply #2228 on: May 18, 2015, 09:54:49 PM »
Just saw this one: "Making a trip to the food bank Tuesday, I hate telling the kids that a single thing is all that is left... Don't eat too much!"

This post follows the "2015 Disneyland and Legoland Photo Album" that they posted three days ago -- which when they got back from their trip. Seriously, who goes on an expensive two week trip, then comes home and has to go to a food bank to eat?? According to a previous post, she spent $3k on the trip, "which was a steal because she got a discount on park passes through work." If you can spend 3k on vacation, you don't need a fucking food bank.

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« Reply #2229 on: May 19, 2015, 01:09:21 AM »
Just saw this one: "Making a trip to the food bank Tuesday, I hate telling the kids that a single thing is all that is left... Don't eat too much!"

This post follows the "2015 Disneyland and Legoland Photo Album" that they posted three days ago -- which when they got back from their trip. Seriously, who goes on an expensive two week trip, then comes home and has to go to a food bank to eat?? According to a previous post, she spent $3k on the trip, "which was a steal because she got a discount on park passes through work." If you can spend 3k on vacation, you don't need a fucking food bank.

That's plain sickening.

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« Reply #2230 on: May 19, 2015, 03:06:08 AM »
Just saw this one: "Making a trip to the food bank Tuesday, I hate telling the kids that a single thing is all that is left... Don't eat too much!"

This post follows the "2015 Disneyland and Legoland Photo Album" that they posted three days ago -- which when they got back from their trip. Seriously, who goes on an expensive two week trip, then comes home and has to go to a food bank to eat?? According to a previous post, she spent $3k on the trip, "which was a steal because she got a discount on park passes through work." If you can spend 3k on vacation, you don't need a fucking food bank.

That is seriously annoying, food banks are there for the genuinely needy.

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« Reply #2231 on: May 19, 2015, 07:28:46 AM »
Just saw this one: "Making a trip to the food bank Tuesday, I hate telling the kids that a single thing is all that is left... Don't eat too much!"

This post follows the "2015 Disneyland and Legoland Photo Album" that they posted three days ago -- which when they got back from their trip. Seriously, who goes on an expensive two week trip, then comes home and has to go to a food bank to eat?? According to a previous post, she spent $3k on the trip, "which was a steal because she got a discount on park passes through work." If you can spend 3k on vacation, you don't need a fucking food bank.

That is seriously annoying, food banks are there for the genuinely needy.

sounds like they genuinely need food this week. would you prefer they eat the photo album?

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« Reply #2232 on: May 19, 2015, 07:45:16 AM »
Just saw this one: "Making a trip to the food bank Tuesday, I hate telling the kids that a single thing is all that is left... Don't eat too much!"

This post follows the "2015 Disneyland and Legoland Photo Album" that they posted three days ago -- which when they got back from their trip. Seriously, who goes on an expensive two week trip, then comes home and has to go to a food bank to eat?? According to a previous post, she spent $3k on the trip, "which was a steal because she got a discount on park passes through work." If you can spend 3k on vacation, you don't need a fucking food bank.

That is seriously annoying, food banks are there for the genuinely needy.

sounds like they genuinely need food this week. would you prefer they eat the photo album?

Thanks for making this point. It is terrible that this person has her priorities all screwed up, but it's not the kids' fault. They should be able to eat regardless of their mother's poor decisions.

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« Reply #2233 on: May 19, 2015, 07:48:39 AM »
I would prefer that they sell/pawn something and buy their own food, and use this as a lesson to themselves. If they're taking $3k vacations (and posting about it on the Internet), they have something non-essential (jewelry, stereo, etc.) they can sell for $50-$100.
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« Reply #2234 on: May 19, 2015, 07:52:19 AM »
Just saw this one: "Making a trip to the food bank Tuesday, I hate telling the kids that a single thing is all that is left... Don't eat too much!"

This post follows the "2015 Disneyland and Legoland Photo Album" that they posted three days ago -- which when they got back from their trip. Seriously, who goes on an expensive two week trip, then comes home and has to go to a food bank to eat?? According to a previous post, she spent $3k on the trip, "which was a steal because she got a discount on park passes through work." If you can spend 3k on vacation, you don't need a fucking food bank.

That is seriously annoying, food banks are there for the genuinely needy.

sounds like they genuinely need food this week. would you prefer they eat the photo album?

No, of course they should be able to get food when needed.  The point is that they shouldn't have taken a $3000 vacation when they didn't have enough money in the bank to buy food for the rest of the week.

And no, I'm not saying poor people aren't allowed to have fun, or nice things, either.  But there are a lot of ways to have fun that are not $3000 vacations.  Go to Six Flags for the day.  Treat your kids to a nice movie.  Or even better, go play in the park!  There are a lot of ways to have fun, and when you can't feed yourself through the end of the week, then no, an expensive vacation is not an option for you, and yes, shame on this person for taking one anyway.

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« Reply #2235 on: May 19, 2015, 07:56:22 AM »

sounds like they genuinely need food this week. would you prefer they eat the photo album?

Eh. They can sell one of the giant TVs in the kids' room, get rid of one of the brand new iPhones in the house, or sell plasma. There are people in genuine need that need this food, and our food banks have been low on donations for over a year locally. Knowing this person, chances are there is also plenty of food in the house, but it's probably not up to standards (easy/junky enough). kids are older teens and just as entitled as mom, so it isn't little kids skipping a meal. It would do them all good to live with the consequences of their choices for a day or two.

So in this case, I have no problem being a judgmental prick.

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« Reply #2236 on: May 19, 2015, 07:58:02 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

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« Reply #2237 on: May 19, 2015, 08:02:14 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

It is for people with no food -- It's for those with no food and no other means to get it for their family. In other words, those with genuine need. It is not for those with easily liquidated assets and food in the cupboard. 

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« Reply #2238 on: May 19, 2015, 08:07:30 AM »
Obviously people shouldn't be taking $3k holidays when they think they might be low on food for their kids. I'm saying that they should prioritise better, not that their kids should starve. Food banks aren't meant to be there for people who spent too much on a holiday and forgot they might also need money to buy food.


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« Reply #2239 on: May 19, 2015, 08:24:14 AM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

I've actually thought that this might be a good side hustle -- advertise a haul-away service for broken appliances, and repair and resell whatever percentage of them have an easy fix. You'd make money on both ends of the deal.

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« Reply #2240 on: May 19, 2015, 08:27:02 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

Exactly.  No one should be responsible for their own decisions.  We should all be able to live in houses we can't afford, drive cars we can't afford, and take vacations we can't afford.  Providing food for me and my family is other people's responsibility.  yolo

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« Reply #2241 on: May 19, 2015, 08:28:29 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

Exactly.  No one should be responsible for their own decisions.  We should all be able to live in houses we can't afford, drive cars we can't afford, and take vacations we can't afford.  Providing food for me and my family is other people's responsibility.  yolo

right im totally advocating for the above, by saying that a resource for people who need food was used for its exact purpose.

new rule: you can only go to the food bank if you need food and you can prove you have nothing valuable at home!

it sucks that they manage money poorly, but its good that we have a way for people to not starve. im sorry if i dont love  to always attack people.
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« Reply #2242 on: May 19, 2015, 08:35:11 AM »
Obviously people shouldn't be taking $3k holidays when they think they might be low on food for their kids. I'm saying that they should prioritise better, not that their kids should starve. Food banks aren't meant to be there for people who spent too much on a holiday and forgot they might also need money to buy food.

If the kids are teens and there are some staples at home, it might be a valuable lesson to live on rice, beans and water for a week.

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« Reply #2243 on: May 19, 2015, 08:38:52 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

Exactly.  No one should be responsible for their own decisions.  We should all be able to live in houses we can't afford, drive cars we can't afford, and take vacations we can't afford.  Providing food for me and my family is other people's responsibility.  yolo

right im totally advocating for the above, by saying that a resource for people who need food was used for its exact purpose.

new rule: you can only go to the food bank if you need food and you can prove you have nothing valuable at home!

it sucks that they manage money poorly, but its good that we have a way for people to not starve. im sorry if i dont love  to always attack people.

They went to the food bank within 3 days of returning from a $3k vacation.  I'd glad the kids don't starve because it's likely not their fault.  I don't think it's a good thing that the parents didn't go hungry though.  They deserved to go hungry for their poor planning and decision making, and I think it's ridiculous that other people are subsidizing these people's food budget while they blow their money on vacations.

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« Reply #2244 on: May 19, 2015, 08:54:36 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

The foodbank is not for people with no food. I have no food at the moment (we have been on vacation, and I intentionally ate everything down first). I also I have a ton of money in the bank. Should I go to the foodbank?

On your logic I should, because, genuinely, I have no food.

Instead, I will go to grocery store.

Grocery stores are for people with no food.
Foodbanks are for people without the ability to get food before going hungry.

So yes, I would argue that the foodbank is for other people with no food. People other than me, who have no way to feed themselves.

And I am very glad (and sad) that the foodbank is available, and regularly donate.

But to say the foodbank is there for ANYONE with no food is (to use your word, I wouldn't generally start throwing insults about) stupid.

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« Reply #2245 on: May 19, 2015, 09:18:24 AM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

I disagree with this.  I have a "new" front load set.  I bought them in 2006 new and have had to replace the door latch($55) and the main PCB ($75) in the washer.  They are both going strong, and I will repair them until I can no longer get parts for them, which is unlikely soon, they are still using the same parts in new ones. 

Of course I did the repair myself so that saved money on the labour.  The new machines are so simple to fix, just need to watch a you tube video.

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« Reply #2246 on: May 19, 2015, 09:51:47 AM »
we can all judge, but to complain that the food bank is for the other people with no food is stupid.

The foodbank is not for people with no food. I have no food at the moment (we have been on vacation, and I intentionally ate everything down first). I also I have a ton of money in the bank. Should I go to the foodbank?

On your logic I should, because, genuinely, I have no food.

Instead, I will go to grocery store.

Grocery stores are for people with no food.
Foodbanks are for people without the ability to get food before going hungry.

So yes, I would argue that the foodbank is for other people with no food. People other than me, who have no way to feed themselves.

And I am very glad (and sad) that the foodbank is available, and regularly donate.

But to say the foodbank is there for ANYONE with no food is (to use your word, I wouldn't generally start throwing insults about) stupid.

I agree, not trying to judge anyone but food banks rely on the goodwill of people to contribute food. I contribute food wanting to help out people that are unable to buy food on their own. I will continue to donate food anyways but others might be less inclined to donate if they think that it is going to help those that aren't willing to go to the grocery store.

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« Reply #2247 on: May 19, 2015, 09:58:45 AM »
Old washers were made to be fixed. New ones are made to be replaced.

I like that the new ones use so much less electricity and water, but since they will have such a short lifespan, I wonder what the actual energy savings is...

This is precisely why we bought ours used from one of those appliances dudes who repairs older, better made machines. Ours are 20+ year old Kenmores that we bought 10 years ago - $300 for the set. Still going strong.

I've actually thought that this might be a good side hustle -- advertise a haul-away service for broken appliances, and repair and resell whatever percentage of them have an easy fix. You'd make money on both ends of the deal.
I heard of a guy doing this in the town I grew up in. He was an immigrant from West Africa and still had connections over there. Got a job as a garbageman because he had no education/skills, quickly learned how much working stuff we threw away and started repairing stuff and shipping it out to a cousin back home. Made a fortune off of fridges that were the wrong colour, tvs that aren't flat enough, things that look too hard to repair etc.

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« Reply #2248 on: May 19, 2015, 10:15:07 AM »

Sale Ad: "Dryer works just fine. Heats great. We had to buy matching set when washer went out. Not very pretty but it does the job."

I just don't understand this.  Is the laundry room now a place where your friends judge your adequacy?

Yes, it absolutely is.  This was actually really hard for me to resist when we moved and I got a washer/dryer set.  I just got plain white so that I could replace easily if one broke; but man, those pretty red ones were calling for me... at double the price.

I suddenly want wildly clashing appliances. Red and purple or something
Ha!  I think the washer and dryer that came with our house were made in 1987.  We replaced the washer a year ago (it just wasn't getting our clothing clean, and would tear it).  We got a reasonably priced, low water top loader with no agitator in the middle.  Takes forever to run though, and is easily unbalanced.

Still have the old dryer, which is kind of yellow now.

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« Reply #2249 on: May 19, 2015, 10:17:03 AM »

I heard of a guy doing this in the town I grew up in. He was an immigrant from West Africa and still had connections over there. Got a job as a garbageman because he had no education/skills, quickly learned how much working stuff we threw away and started repairing stuff and shipping it out to a cousin back home. Made a fortune off of fridges that were the wrong colour, tvs that aren't flat enough, things that look too hard to repair etc.
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He was able to make a profit on used refrigerators shipped back to West Africa?  Cool.  I would have thought the shipping costs would be too high unless he was doing a high volume.