I've worked in DoD as a contractor for many years and my DH is a retired officer. I can't think of ANY military member that has only lived in small towns in the South. They usually get deployed at least a few times in the career and it's seldom to small towns in the South.
Working in software development certainly doesn't give me the "average" military member but the ones I work with are usually very educated with foreign and domestic military policies. I'll agree that they are usually VERY conservative in a fiscal sense. My husband is SOOOOOO conservative. He's already FI and could FIRE right now. But, he wants to work another X years to get his second govt pension. I would FIRE today if I had the money! Like right now....walk straight out the damn door and never look back.
but I digress.
It appears my quoting skills need work. sorry.
It happens less with officers, and it happens less with anyone who's highly educated, but it still happens.
A couple of clarifications:
Living somewhere and being deployed there are often quite different. You can deploy for years and be exposed to very little culture other than US military culture. I'm talking about people who want to generalize federal laws affecting NYC and San Fran based on their life lessons from growing up in a small town and getting stationed at Fort Bragg or Fort Benning.
Fiscal conservatism specifically refers to government policy, not personal finance. Questions of tax code structure and federal funding allocations, etc. (this relates to the above)
So military personal don't trust anything government run? Last time I checked, the DoD is funded and run by the government.
That is the central irony of it all. People railing against Obamacare who want free TriCare for life. People who can un-ironically pontificate about the universal inability of government to do anything good for anyone, ever, while in a uniform provided by the government, doing important work for the people of the USA and being paid by the government to do so.
In my case, being ANG, many of these people have TWO government jobs. Teachers, cops, DoD civilians who are also servicemembers. But government is evil and the private sector is the source of all that is beautiful and holy.
It boggles the fucking mind.
Yes, these are extreme examples and I'm not saying everyone in uniform is like that. But I have been exposed to it on a large scale and it is far from an isolated occurrence.