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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13850 on: July 07, 2016, 09:02:29 PM »
A couple of months ago someone at work came to me determined to end the financial year out of debt. We sat down and went over their expenses and they agreed with themself to commit to changes. Essentially they would have to give up "shopping" until the end of financial year and cut back on general expenses (they did leave a $200/month entertainment allowance in there so it wasn't exactly a mustachian cutback).

Fast forward to the last day of the financial year and this person comes back after lunch with $800 worth of goods in the back of their car and laughs saying they just can't change who they are and that the debt will have to wait. 

Now if they mention their financial issues around me I just get up and walk away.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13851 on: July 08, 2016, 06:56:43 AM »
My company has finally started putting the company-wide list in the BCC field so that if you reply to all it only goes to the original sender.

There have been tech stories of "reply-all" taking down corporate networks with participants replying to the replies. I can't find the story that I want to reference but one company had to shut their mails erver down a few times to get everyone calmed down and to quit replying to all.
I don't know about this, but I have heard about a case of auto-reply.  One guy set up an auto reply for a specific person, to mess with them.  So the other guy set up an auto reply back.  The first email between the two after that set up an infinite loop of auto-replies and brought the company's email down.  At which time the company took both of their email privileges away.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13852 on: July 08, 2016, 07:26:44 AM »
I'm on a distribution list with around 5000 other people (well according to the email, I have no idea how many in reality).  Someone sent out a request using it.  So far there have been 11 reply alls, to either take them off the distro list, or a simply reply of "unsubscribe," or chastising the other people who replied all.
Once when I was leaving on vacation for south Asia, I turned off my phone for about 24 hours while traveling. When I turned it back on, I saw that I had >200 (work) emails. I initially panicked - something terrible must have happened for me to be getting that many emails on a weekend! But then as I scrolled through I realized it was exactly the case you described - an email was send out to thousands of people, and dozens of them replied all to say "please take me off the distribution list!" or "everybody stop replying all!" OMG.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13853 on: July 08, 2016, 07:45:46 AM »
I'm on a distribution list with around 5000 other people (well according to the email, I have no idea how many in reality).  Someone sent out a request using it.  So far there have been 11 reply alls, to either take them off the distro list, or a simply reply of "unsubscribe," or chastising the other people who replied all.
Once when I was leaving on vacation for south Asia, I turned off my phone for about 24 hours while traveling. When I turned it back on, I saw that I had >200 (work) emails. I initially panicked - something terrible must have happened for me to be getting that many emails on a weekend! But then as I scrolled through I realized it was exactly the case you described - an email was send out to thousands of people, and dozens of them replied all to say "please take me off the distribution list!" or "everybody stop replying all!" OMG.

That happened here on the Army base during my staycation last week. Most of the replies were utterly asinine, and one was even a clear Hatch Act violation (a political jab at a current POTUS nominee, to be specific). I just got around to deleting them all yesterday. It boggles the mind how many stupid people manage to hold government jobs at or near six-figure salaries.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13854 on: July 08, 2016, 09:30:56 AM »
My company has finally started putting the company-wide list in the BCC field so that if you reply to all it only goes to the original sender.

There have been tech stories of "reply-all" taking down corporate networks with participants replying to the replies. I can't find the story that I want to reference but one company had to shut their mails erver down a few times to get everyone calmed down and to quit replying to all.
I don't know about this, but I have heard about a case of auto-reply.  One guy set up an auto reply for a specific person, to mess with them.  So the other guy set up an auto reply back.  The first email between the two after that set up an infinite loop of auto-replies and brought the company's email down.  At which time the company took both of their email privileges away.

I did this in college with a chat program and brought down the Penn State mainframe.

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« Reply #13855 on: July 08, 2016, 11:07:11 AM »
I'm on a distribution list with around 5000 other people (well according to the email, I have no idea how many in reality).  Someone sent out a request using it.  So far there have been 11 reply alls, to either take them off the distro list, or a simply reply of "unsubscribe," or chastising the other people who replied all.
Once when I was leaving on vacation for south Asia, I turned off my phone for about 24 hours while traveling. When I turned it back on, I saw that I had >200 (work) emails. I initially panicked - something terrible must have happened for me to be getting that many emails on a weekend! But then as I scrolled through I realized it was exactly the case you described - an email was send out to thousands of people, and dozens of them replied all to say "please take me off the distribution list!" or "everybody stop replying all!" OMG.

That happened here on the Army base during my staycation last week. Most of the replies were utterly asinine, and one was even a clear Hatch Act violation (a political jab at a current POTUS nominee, to be specific). I just got around to deleting them all yesterday. It boggles the mind how many stupid people manage to hold government jobs at or near six-figure salaries.

I've got a Tubman that says it was anti-Hillary.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13856 on: July 08, 2016, 01:29:32 PM »
I'm on a distribution list with around 5000 other people (well according to the email, I have no idea how many in reality).  Someone sent out a request using it.  So far there have been 11 reply alls, to either take them off the distro list, or a simply reply of "unsubscribe," or chastising the other people who replied all.
Once when I was leaving on vacation for south Asia, I turned off my phone for about 24 hours while traveling. When I turned it back on, I saw that I had >200 (work) emails. I initially panicked - something terrible must have happened for me to be getting that many emails on a weekend! But then as I scrolled through I realized it was exactly the case you described - an email was send out to thousands of people, and dozens of them replied all to say "please take me off the distribution list!" or "everybody stop replying all!" OMG.

That happened here on the Army base during my staycation last week. Most of the replies were utterly asinine, and one was even a clear Hatch Act violation (a political jab at a current POTUS nominee, to be specific). I just got around to deleting them all yesterday. It boggles the mind how many stupid people manage to hold government jobs at or near six-figure salaries.

I'm pretty sure that's the one common requirement to holding down a government job :)
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13857 on: July 08, 2016, 02:36:18 PM »
I've got a Tubman that says it was anti-Hillary.

Tubman? We should put Tubgirl on currency! That'll stop people spending outrageously.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13858 on: July 08, 2016, 03:00:22 PM »
My company has finally started putting the company-wide list in the BCC field so that if you reply to all it only goes to the original sender.

There have been tech stories of "reply-all" taking down corporate networks with participants replying to the replies. I can't find the story that I want to reference but one company had to shut their mails erver down a few times to get everyone calmed down and to quit replying to all.
I don't know about this, but I have heard about a case of auto-reply.  One guy set up an auto reply for a specific person, to mess with them.  So the other guy set up an auto reply back.  The first email between the two after that set up an infinite loop of auto-replies and brought the company's email down. At which time the company took both of their email privileges away.

OMG.  When I worked I would have paid to have my e-mail "privileges" taken away. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13859 on: July 08, 2016, 03:41:31 PM »
We get sent fake phishing emails from IT to see if we are following policy. I'm tempted to intentionally fail the test so they will revoke my email "privileges".

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13860 on: July 08, 2016, 03:48:35 PM »
Our IT guys just despair of some of the people in my building.

They just don't have a discerning bone in their bodies when it comes to potentially harmful emails.

One guy is on a real power trip, loves thinking he gets sent information first, so he looks at spam emails, works out which department he thinks they are related to, and generously forwards them on. (E.g. Any Apple or Facebook spam gets forwarded to the web team. >.<)

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« Reply #13861 on: July 08, 2016, 03:50:15 PM »
Our IT guys just despair of some of the people in my building.

They just don't have a discerning bone in their bodies when it comes to potentially harmful emails.

One guy is on a real power trip, loves thinking he gets sent information first, so he looks at spam emails, works out which department he thinks they are related to, and generously forwards them on. (E.g. Any Apple or Facebook spam gets forwarded to the web team. >.<)
HAHAHAHHAHAHHA that is hilarious.  Is he maybe just bored and trolling you?  That is a serious lack of critical thinking.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13862 on: July 08, 2016, 06:17:17 PM »
I've got a Tubman that says it was anti-Hillary.

Tubman? We should put Tubgirl on currency! That'll stop people spending outrageously.

Oh god.

Better put goatse on their credit cards then, so they don't just switch to piling up more credit!
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13863 on: July 08, 2016, 10:27:49 PM »
I've got a Tubman that says it was anti-Hillary.

Tubman? We should put Tubgirl on currency! That'll stop people spending outrageously.

Oh god.

Better put goatse on their credit cards then, so they don't just switch to piling up more credit!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13864 on: July 11, 2016, 06:21:51 AM »
I'm on a distribution list with around 5000 other people (well according to the email, I have no idea how many in reality).  Someone sent out a request using it.  So far there have been 11 reply alls, to either take them off the distro list, or a simply reply of "unsubscribe," or chastising the other people who replied all.

These Reply-All fights are one of my favorite things at work.  We only get them a couple of times per year. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
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« Reply #13866 on: July 11, 2016, 09:37:08 AM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

Not only did he stupidly use reply all, but because his email was the reply, every single address now appeared in the text of his email, AND the "to" line. 

Idiot. Way to make the mistake you were shaming for.
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« Reply #13867 on: July 11, 2016, 10:18:55 AM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

Not only did he stupidly use reply all, but because his email was the reply, every single address now appeared in the text of his email, AND the "to" line. 

Idiot. Way to make the mistake you were shaming for.

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« Reply #13868 on: July 11, 2016, 10:37:56 AM »
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« Reply #13869 on: July 11, 2016, 10:59:45 AM »
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That's by far the worst.

We need a browser extension that would scan a thread for keywords like "guns" or "obamacare", and assign a danger score. Above a certain threshold there would be a big warning advising not to engage.

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« Reply #13870 on: July 11, 2016, 11:15:41 AM »
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That's by far the worst.

We need a browser extension that would scan a thread for keywords like "guns" or "obamacare", and assign a danger score. Above a certain threshold there would be a big warning advising not to engage.

Seconding.

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« Reply #13871 on: July 11, 2016, 11:30:11 AM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

Not only did he stupidly use reply all, but because his email was the reply, every single address now appeared in the text of his email, AND the "to" line. 

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« Reply #13872 on: July 11, 2016, 11:55:12 AM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

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« Reply #13873 on: July 11, 2016, 12:31:37 PM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

Not only did he stupidly use reply all, but because his email was the reply, every single address now appeared in the text of his email, AND the "to" line. 

Idiot. Way to make the mistake you were shaming for.

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« Reply #13874 on: July 11, 2016, 12:47:50 PM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

Not only did he stupidly use reply all, but because his email was the reply, every single address now appeared in the text of his email, AND the "to" line. 

Idiot. Way to make the mistake you were shaming for.

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« Reply #13875 on: July 11, 2016, 01:21:26 PM »
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Perhaps my favorite "forget to use BCC" ever was from a secretary at my dance school. She sent an email to every single client. Did not BCC, so all the emails appeared, but since they were in the "to" line, you mostly didn't see them.  Her boss replied all with "In the future, make sure to use the BCC line, if you haven’t already gotten some snippy responses about sharing people’s email, they will be coming.". 

Not only did he stupidly use reply all, but because his email was the reply, every single address now appeared in the text of his email, AND the "to" line. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13876 on: July 11, 2016, 01:37:59 PM »

Stop quoting the whole thread, too

I hate when people don't trim quotes.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13877 on: July 11, 2016, 01:48:51 PM »

Stop quoting the whole thread, too

I hate when people don't trim quotes.

There also has to be a way to change subscription options. I don't get a notification of anything from this forum but private messages.

I do my best to trim quotes if I'm on my computer, but it's a PITA on mobile and I don't usually do it then.

As for the subscription options, you can certainly turn off email notifications, but you cannot remove a thread from the "show new replies to your posts" section unless you have not been quoted and you go delete every single post you've made on the thread.
It's fucking stupid, but that's just what the forum software provides (or rather, doesn't provide). There is a plugin for the forum software to address the issue, but it's implemented horribly and the server takes a massive performance hit. There's several threads on this issue.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13878 on: July 11, 2016, 02:04:16 PM »
At least people aren't top-quoting.



Stop quoting the whole thread, too

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13879 on: July 11, 2016, 02:15:10 PM »
At least people aren't top-quoting.



Stop quoting the whole thread, too

I hate when people don't trim quotes.

There also has to be a way to change subscription options. I don't get a notification of anything from this forum but private messages.

Or fucking up quoting altogether.  Quotes is hard.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13880 on: July 11, 2016, 02:16:46 PM »
Quote from: frugalnacho link=topic=2540.msg1148967#msg1148967 date=1468268110
[quote author=infogoon link=topic=2540.msg1148947#msg1148947 date=1468267456
At least people aren't top-quoting.



Stop quoting the whole thread, too

I hate when people don't trim quotes.

There also has to be a way to change subscription options. I don't get a notification of anything from this forum but private messages.

Or fucking up quoting altogether.  Quotes is hard.
[/quote]

Meh, it's not that hard.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13881 on: July 11, 2016, 02:40:04 PM »
*LOL* 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13882 on: July 11, 2016, 03:42:48 PM »
At least people aren't top-quoting.



Stop quoting the whole thread, too

I hate when people don't trim quotes.

There also has to be a way to change subscription options. I don't get a notification of anything from this forum but private messages.

Or fucking up quoting altogether.  Quotes is hard.

Meh, it's not that hard.

You'd be surprised how people manage to screw things up

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13883 on: July 11, 2016, 03:43:09 PM »
At least people aren't top-quoting.



Stop quoting the whole thread, too

I hate when people don't trim quotes.

There also has to be a way to change subscription options. I don't get a notification of anything from this forum but private messages.

Or fucking up quoting altogether.  Quotes is hard.

Meh, it's not that hard.

It's pretty easy.  Just click the little gray box next to "insert quote"

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13884 on: July 11, 2016, 03:53:45 PM »
``dragoncar said

It's pretty easy.  Just click the little gray box next to "insert quote"

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Yeah see, easy
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13885 on: July 11, 2016, 06:59:25 PM »
A colleague just realised she came to work in mismatched shoes (two different black heels) so she immediately walked out to buy a new pair.

I'm not sure anyone else would have realised, given that it's 11am and she only just noticed...

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« Reply #13886 on: July 11, 2016, 08:50:15 PM »
I finally have a good one from the co-workers. A manager, a VP and I were wrapping up a meeting and we started talking about how my wife's pregnant, and how people are waiting longer to have kids (were 31).

They both said something to the effect of "It's better to wait to have kids because your career is more advanced, so you can buy your kids whatever they want and you never have to tell them 'no'." lol

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« Reply #13887 on: July 11, 2016, 08:52:04 PM »
They both said something to the effect of "It's better to wait to have kids because your career is more advanced, so you can buy your kids whatever they want and you never have to tell them 'no'." lol

Casually racist *and* financially irresponsible, that's gonna be hard to top.

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« Reply #13888 on: July 11, 2016, 08:55:17 PM »
They both said something to the effect of "It's better to wait to have kids because your career is more advanced, so you can buy your kids whatever they want and you never have to tell them 'no'." lol

Casually racist *and* financially irresponsible, that's gonna be hard to top.

Am I missing something here? There wasn't any race mentioned anywhere....

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13889 on: July 11, 2016, 09:11:09 PM »
They both said something to the effect of "It's better to wait to have kids because your career is more advanced, so you can buy your kids whatever they want and you never have to tell them 'no'." lol

Casually racist *and* financially irresponsible, that's gonna be hard to top.

Am I missing something here? There wasn't any race mentioned anywhere....

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13890 on: July 11, 2016, 09:14:17 PM »
They both said something to the effect of "It's better to wait to have kids because your career is more advanced, so you can buy your kids whatever they want and you never have to tell them 'no'." lol

Casually racist *and* financially irresponsible, that's gonna be hard to top.

Am I missing something here? There wasn't any race mentioned anywhere....

VP=Vietnamese people

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« Reply #13891 on: July 11, 2016, 09:23:00 PM »
Maybe he read it as "buy your kids wherever you want" (instead of whatever they want)?
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« Reply #13892 on: July 11, 2016, 09:35:01 PM »
Maybe he read it as "buy your kids wherever you want" (instead of whatever they want)?

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« Reply #13893 on: July 11, 2016, 09:57:08 PM »
Wow, looks like an edit went in *just* as I clicked quote, and I missed that it didn't say the original thing it said when I saw it.  The word "kids" was definitely not the first thing that appeared in that comment...

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« Reply #13894 on: July 11, 2016, 10:06:19 PM »
Wow, looks like an edit went in *just* as I clicked quote, and I missed that it didn't say the original thing it said when I saw it.  The word "kids" was definitely not the first thing that appeared in that comment...

Now I'm even more confused, as armueller2001's post doesn't say it was edited.

Edit: When a post is edited, you'll see a little thing under the post that says  « Last Edit: [time] by [forum handle] »
« Last Edit: July 11, 2016, 10:08:50 PM by johnny847 »

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« Reply #13895 on: July 11, 2016, 10:20:47 PM »
Yes, but if you edit it right away, that never appears.

SOMETHING NOT RACIST <-- Soon to read "Not" when I edit it in the next 30 seconds

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« Reply #13896 on: July 11, 2016, 10:21:40 PM »
Wow, looks like an edit went in *just* as I clicked quote, and I missed that it didn't say the original thing it said when I saw it.  The word "kids" was definitely not the first thing that appeared in that comment...

Now I'm even more confused, as armueller2001's post doesn't say it was edited.

Edit: When a post is edited, you'll see a little thing under the post that says  « Last Edit: [time] by [forum handle] »

Sometimes you can edit a post quick enough, and that doesn't show.  It will always show if more than a few minutes have passed, or if a reply is posted.  If lind had the tab open, muller edited it, lind hit quote, lind's quote would now have the new text, and there wouldn't necessarily have the edited by text.
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« Reply #13897 on: July 11, 2016, 10:23:28 PM »
Just so everyone's not confused, by the way, replace "kids" in what I quoted above with the plural n-word.

(BTw, I edited this post too!)

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« Reply #13898 on: July 11, 2016, 11:15:31 PM »
Wow, looks like an edit went in *just* as I clicked quote, and I missed that it didn't say the original thing it said when I saw it.  The word "kids" was definitely not the first thing that appeared in that comment...

Now I'm even more confused, as armueller2001's post doesn't say it was edited.

Edit: When a post is edited, you'll see a little thing under the post that says  « Last Edit: [time] by [forum handle] »

Sometimes you can edit a post quick enough, and that doesn't show.  It will always show if more than a few minutes have passed, or if a reply is posted.  If lind had the tab open, muller edited it, lind hit quote, lind's quote would now have the new text, and there wouldn't necessarily have the edited by text.

Oh that's weird. I didn't realize it gave you a short time window to edit without it showing as edited.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #13899 on: July 12, 2016, 12:10:32 AM »
Just so everyone's not confused, by the way, replace "kids" in what I quoted above with the plural n-word.

(BTw, I edited this post too!)

Just the second one, I assume? 

That's definitely a weird thing to say.
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