I almost dated a guy with a huge amount of family money a few years ago. We were friends (ish) and kind of circled around the dating thing on and off for awhile. Our first and only actual date ended up being a semi-expensive meal and then walking around a huge upscale mall, where he tried to buy me stuff from Louis Vuitton and Coach and Tiffany's. I'm totally not joking. I didn't let him buy me anything, because it was SO WEIRD. I would never in a million years spend that much on accessories! Or any clothes, for that matter. We drifted apart for awhile after that, then almost a year later he tried to reach out to me again. He ended up offering to pay for the new laptop I was buying at the time, and when I shot that down, wanted to fly me to his hometown for a music festival and buy us VIP meet and greet type tickets, despite the fact that he totally hated the kind of music I was into. In the course of all that, he mentioned how he'd been dating another girl who was thrilled for him to buy her sideline seats at an NFL game, even though he really wasn't into football. I felt kinda bad for him because it was pretty clear that he had no concept of actual romantic love and had spent his entire life getting used by women like that girl...he made it so easy so I'm not sure I really blame them. But he couldn't handle being told no and ended up getting kind of stalkery...I eventually got him to go away permanently (well, so far at least...hopefully) by literally screaming at him that all I ever wanted was to use him for his money -- ironically, I'm probably the only girl he's ever been interested in who DIDN'T want that.
Anyways, yeah, lots of girls aren't into the provider thing. Though there are days I look at my student loan balance and question my sanity...(not really, I love my husband and the rich guy was so off in other ways).