I never understand how all these 100k+ engineers can be living paycheck to paycheck. I just can't fathom where it all goes-- I used to be a spendthrift but I still was able to max my retirement accounts with money to spare And at a lower salary. The bank won't even give you a loan if your debt to income ratio is above what 35%? So the majority of expense cannot be the McMansion.
I really need to start reading more of the crazy case studies here and drill down into what could possibly burn that much money on a day to day basis. I'm guessing it's a combo of expensive house, new car, and lavish vacations more than just consumer junk. Right???
Or maybe we are just focusing on the vocal few.
Yeah right? We are both engineers, and our spending is higher than I'd like it to be. $55k last year not including the mortgage, and I'm trying to drill down to see where it is all going (I lost track of it all after the second baby.) I think it's nickel and diming, plus daycare (which just went up hugely, ouch!)
But here's what I see in my coworkers - most of them are on the frugal side, but we all have our issues.
- expensive houses (average house in my town, starter home, about $700k)
- cars (pickup trucks, SUVs), plus clown car commutes (I am personally guilty of the commute)
- the occasional expensive gym membership
- meals out. At $10 a day. (lunch)
- vacations. A couple a year, to Hawaii, Europe, Australia, Skiing in Utah, Vegas. Some people have $10k tp $30k or more budgets
- food. I have a couple of friends who do takeout AND/OR shop at the farmer's market at the tune of $2000 a month
- cable TV. This is easily big bucks. Heck, we only have internet and phone and it went up to $123 a month. So next week we are going to call and try to get it cut by reducing speed and dropping the phone.
- cell phones. Engineers love them. And they easily spend $80 a person on their cell phone package, not to mention the new Iphone 6
- Kids. daycare alone is expensive, then there is the "right" preschool. We spend on after school care and swim lessons and ONE after school activity. But it's not uncommon for parents to spend on traveling soccer, plus enrichment activities, plus clothing
- school or private school. Our public school is broke, I donate at least a few thousand a year, and not to mention the time...
- date nights. Babysitting isn't cheap. (We almost never go on dates.) Concerts, very nice meals out. Movies.
- electronics - video games, Ipads, etc. "Why not it's only 300 dollars?"