Not surprised at all - just disappointed.
Eh, no point in being disappointed in basic, fundamental human behaviours.
I know you put a lot of effort into advocating against judging high earning, high spenders, but you're just asking for it by coming into a schadenfreude humour section of the forum and getting bent out of shape about people having their schadenfreude fun.
Also, I personally think you're just frankly wrong on the front that it doesn't matter how it affects the person.
If someone steals my lunch at work and I can easily buy one from the restaurant downstairs, that is objectively less tragic than if someone steals the lunch of a single mom who can barely afford food.
The crime is the same, but NO ONE should feel as bad for me, who is mildly inconvenienced, as they should for someone who's wellbeing is significantly affected by the same crime.
If that's genuinely your morality, I seriously question your humanity.