DH was always good about thoughtful gifts at meaningful times--was not wildly romantic or extravagant, but more or less hit the highlights. (The one exception was when he took an old Christmas card that was mostly done in reds, crossed out "Merry Christmas", wrote in "Happy Valentine's Day" and gave it to me on Feb. 14. Yes, he did pay for that one stupid gesture! Bwa-ha-ha-ha. I insisted on dinner out and a movie, which trust me, I would never normally want to do--but I was getting revenge!) Anyway, the one thing he never did was send flowers to my office. I would have liked that, just to kind of be able to show off. Several of the other girls got flowers at the office, and I thought it was nice. But I did get them at home from time to time, and really appreciated it. In terms of the stripper-gram…hmmmmm…I've never seen that done, so can't comment. In the office, wouldn't they probably call security? Hahahahahaahaha.