This. Is. Awful. It's not even just the spending, it's the way she JUSTIFIES the spending. "Ideally, I'd drive a more fuel-efficient vehicle, but I love my SUV and all the space. Our dogs fit comfortably, and once we have kids, it'll fit the whole family. Plus, once the Model 3 is available, we're getting one for my husband, and that will ease my gas mileage guilt."
It also has basic calculation errors. For example, the lunch thing: "I still have money on my badge, so it doesn't cost me anything."
No, it costs you $30/the number of days you buy lunch.