Blech, reminds me of an old family friend - Except he's only making closer to 30k a year, not 130k. Also 31 years old, still lives at home, tries to party it up like a crazy person (he just recently came out of the closet and feels he needs to "make up for lost time").
Except that my friend bitches about how much his parents (who are some of the coolest people I know, but they're understandably fed up with him) restrict his freedom. I've sat there in their kitchen while he whines at them "I'm 31 years old, I shouldn't have a curfew! I should be able to bring home whoever I want! It's my life! None of my friends can believe I still have to deal with this crap!"
His mom coolly looks at him and says, "Then leave. It's our house and we've told you - we don't want you here anymore."
And then he goes off whining about how much debt he has (all car loan and credit card spending, his own damn fault, they paid for his college years ago), and how expensive life is.
I don't understand how the hell they haven't just kicked him out yet. I have no pity for a man-child.