1. I MUST own my home (no mortgage) in the location of my choosing.
2. I MUST own a vehicle so I can drive wherever I want to whenever I want to even if my home is in a city with access to public transportation.
I have 1 and 2.
This is something I actually think about because my stash can easily provide well in excess of my barebones.
1) Yes, I must own a home. And I already do. However, I might relocate, so having a nice home in a good neighborhood may still be something I have to deal with again after I FIRE.
2) Yes, I must own a car. And I already do. Where I live, public transportation won't cut it, nor will biking. The big questions are how soon do I buy my next car and how much do I want to spend. I have just over 50,000 miles on a 14 1/2 year old car, which should last for years if I keep it.
3) Home improvements, repairs, appliances. I've put off a lot of things I've wanted to do to the house waiting until I FIRE. Roof, carpeting, HVAC, kitchen & bath renovations, rebuild deck, new windows, new appliances, and more. We're probably talking over $40,000, even with DIY where I can. The wild card is that I might relocate, so I don't want to overdo any improvements if I'm not staying, plus the new place will most likely need some of the same.
4) The next thing down on my list is probably a couple e-bikes, that I do NOT own yet. Prices vary considerably on the ones I've been looking at, probably $2500 to $8500 total for 2 bikes, so not necessarily that big of a ticket.
Any other individual "must have" items that come to mind are not really big ticket items
I've slated $100,000 off the top of my stash to account for #1 and #3 combined before figuring the remaining is available for ongoing expenses, both short and long term.