Wow, nice blast from the past. It's cool to hear from someone in a very similar place, but waiting on the bf to pop the question, ha!
EF: not adding to this anymore. Interest has grown this to 18k.
401k: employer has stupid rule that the max is 15% of salary, so I'm limited to contributing ~1k per month. Current 401k is at 9k (in addition to old 401k accounts that I transferred to Vanguard)
RWHH: new account I'm funding for ring, wedding, honeymoon, and house DP. aka our love fund, currently at 9k.
Debt: still 100% debt-free.
Investing: 3k*
The last year...we lived together and split things for a while, allowing me to really ramp up savings. However, gf quit her job and didn't start working again until recently. For about 6 months now, I paid all of the bills, so my SR took a big hit. The good news is that we'll soon be splitting things again, maybe in the next month or month after. I put off thoughts of rings and engagement until she had a better vision of the future and her career and how we/I fit into all that. On a positive note, she passed a big certification/test that allows her to finally be qualified and look for Big Girl jobs. So now I'm feeling more comfortable with thinking about getting engaged. She needs to look at rings and figure out what she wants, it's not going to be a big surprise. Marriage expenses are also a consideration, but I'm taking things one step at a time, and the next is buying a ring with cash.
So now we're waiting to see what kinda job she'll get, as far as thinking about buying a house. I'm guessing she's about 6 months away from starting a salary job. Depending on that, we can decide whether we want to look for a house when the next lease ends (11/20) or if we don't have enough saved, maybe sign another 1-year lease after that. Complicating things even more is that even though I'm employed and making plenty of $, I'm also looking to change jobs for a more secure future for self/family/insurance. My plan is once she gets a salary job, reevaluate the numbers. If it's possible to buy a house late this year, turn off all retirement savings and save for house DP. If it's not possible, even without her help and splitting bills again, then wait until late 2021.
*I found a new investing platform online recently. I've put about 3k into it over the past 6 weeks or so. Interest is an average of 5% in an average of ONLY 4 MONTHS, coming out to about 20% annualized. The plan is to either immediately reinvest the returns or transfer them to the Love Fund, depending on how they perform and what new opportunities are available. I haven't been paid back yet, but scheduled to get some returns starting in February. If you're interested in too-good-to-be-true numbers, PM me.