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wing117

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When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« on: November 19, 2013, 04:46:43 PM »
It's almost been a year since I started practicing frugality and working towards my early retirement. This month marked the month that, since the first time since I was 17 years old, I am 100% debt and liability free.  I am preparing to automate all my investing and savings and start focusing again on enjoying life (rather than pinching every penny to get out of debt emergencies and increase my savings percentage as high as possible). I'm at a happy and respectable 68% savings rate and next year, with some tax optimizations in 2014, that will be even higher with little effort.

But life threw a curve ball last week, as it always will: my SO was laid off unexpectedly! HOLY CRAP! What are we going to d--

Wait a second, there's no fire alarm here!

I realized after the initial wave of fear that, because of the life choices we made this last year, our emergency money will float all her expenses for 6 months. If I wanted to take on her bills, it would only knock my savings rate down to 54% and the emergency savings would last her twice as long. She is already job hunting, of course  (first interview on Friday!), and not one to sit on her haunches. But if this had happened a year ago, she would need to have found a job within the month for us to make it by. Now she could easily float a year or indefinitely if I were willing to pick up all her expenses/spending (nope. :) ). The only thing that changed is how we view and use the money we have coming in. Neither of us have had raises this year.

I think that is amazing. I am only quarter of the way to the 100K net worth mark, but I already feel as though we are well insulated from life's little curve balls now - and it will only get better. Just wanted to share that revelation.


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Re: When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2013, 04:52:16 PM »
It sure is a good feeling not to have to panic! Congrats!!!

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Re: When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2013, 07:06:58 PM »
That is awesome. I hope that she finds something that she loves soon, but am glad that there's no financial stress associated with it. Nicely done.

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Re: When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« Reply #3 on: November 19, 2013, 07:11:45 PM »
Congratulations: You are Crisis Resistant! You two are amazing.

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Re: When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« Reply #4 on: November 19, 2013, 09:25:00 PM »
The crap in the form of an unexpected lay off has hit the fan and you are okay.  The improvement in your situation after one year of frugality is amazing.   I hope you and your SO are proud of yourselves.

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Re: When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« Reply #5 on: November 20, 2013, 06:17:10 AM »
Congratulations... and note one additional benefit: SO won't be so panicked that she takes any-old, possibly crappy, job offer. She is exploring and interviewing from MMM's position of strength, vs a posture of desperation.

Welcome to the CR club!

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Re: When life throws curve balls, we're already prepared.
« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2013, 12:26:22 PM »
Thanks everyone! I have told her that if she wants to take December as a breather (also since the job market around Christmas/Holiday season gets pretty dry), that's fine. She is in a great position to pick businesses she wishes to help build and represent, rather than anything that happens to be open.

 

Wow, a phone plan for fifteen bucks!