I don't get this. Don't you save for college to pay for college?
The poster didn't mean don't save for college -- he or she meant keep the money in your name, not your kids' names. The reasoning is sound: If you're going to qualify for any federal money or other need-based scholarships, "they" will expect ALL of the student's savings to go towards paying college tuition, whereas the scholarship people expect a smaller proportion of the parents' assets to go towards the child's college.
In reality, however, this doesn't make any difference. If you are middle class, you're not going to qualify for any financial aid. In my experience, a whole lot of people THINK they're going to qualify for at least some aid, and then most don't.
A better reason to keep your savings in your own name is that even the most responsible 18-year old can believe that a fairly small college account is going to stretch farther than it really will, and while I am very happy to pay my child's college tuition, I am not willing to see the money for which I scraped and saved become the downpayment for a sports car or a spring break trip. Yet if it's in the child's name, he or she could rationalize, "Oh, Mom and Dad have saved $$$ -- that's plenty for me to have ___ now and still pay my tuition!" Or, "I'll take out this much now, and I'll earn it back in time to pay my tuition."
IMO, if they are too young to accept the financial burden at 18 then they probably aren't ready for college. I also believe a great many students would be much better off spending four or five years "finding themselves" then going to college, at which time they are ready for college, as well as the financial burdens.
You're mixing two thoughts here:
1. All 18-year olds aren't ready academically or emotionally for college.
2. College is expensive, and someone's gotta pay for it.
They are two separate topics.
If your 18-year old isn't ready for college, #2 doesn't matter. If he or she isn't ready for rigorous coursework or isn't clear on the usefulness of the degree,
then no one should be paying.However, I can't buy into the idea that I should push the financial burden of college
entirely onto my child. My husband and I earn the cost of a semester's college (tuition, housing, everything) in less than a month. We do live in a low cost area, and our college expenses are lower than average. To earn that same amount, my daughter -- even though she's working at more than minimum wage -- would have to put in many, many more hours. This would delay her graduation and would increase the years she'd be working at this lower income level. She "gets it" and is nothing but appreciative and hard working. It's much more efficient for us to pay and see her out in the professional world sooner.
I'm sorry if people have taken my comments as some kind of attack of liberal education. I'm simply looking at it in a dollars and cents perspective. The non-marketable value of education is for each individual to determine.
I wouldn't pay for a degree that was "non-marketable". My daughter is studying to be a nurse. From a dollars-and-cents perspective, she's doing exactly the right thing: She's earning a degree at a young age, so she'll be able to work and earn a decent paycheck. She's going into a field that will always be needed and a field in which work is available everywhere.
I know this is probably a separate thread but I'm curious as to how many people expect their kids to go to college rather than take some other path? Seems to be a common thing to just assume your kids will go to college as well as assume that the parents will pay for a large portion of it of they can. I don't have kids (and didn't have parents who could pay for my college) so it was never something that entered my mind.
My husband and I both have college degrees, and it is our goal for our kids. We've never said "If you go to college", only "When you go to college", and we've pushed them academically, nurtured their interests, and helped them explore careers -- so that this is a reality for them. I'm not saying that it's the right path for everyone, but it is the right path for my kids.