I recent visit to a lawyer, to put together better wills for DH and me, got me wondering. He asked our approximate net worth. I have a number. But as he asked for details, I realized I wasn't including a lot of the things he did, and his number was much, much higher. Granted, he was asking for the purposes of determining potential estate taxes and such, but I thought it was interesting.
For example, he included the value of insurance policies. To me, that's an easy one to dismiss, since it's not money one can tap for living expenses (unless it's a whole life policy, though I'm fuzzy at best on how that works).
Also, I don't include our home, even though it's a rental. I know that's weird. It was our primary residence. We have been and will continue to be somewhat nomadic, thanks to the military and overseas assignments. But someday, we'll need a home again, and while we likely won't move back in to that specific house, the proceeds will likely go toward buying our home. Whether they will cover it all, create a surplus, or fall short depends largely on where we end up, which is completely up in the air. But I figure it's not money we'll use for our SWR (barring a reverse mortgage or other fanciness), so it doesn't count. But maybe a stache and a net worth are not the same, though I mentally treat them as such.
I also don't include my car (though it's worth probably $3000-$4000, so it's not like that makes a really difference!), and I don't include our Stuff (again, not a substation value, but more than the car, and it can't really be tapped for living expenses).
If all this stuff, minus the insurance, is included, our new worth is almost double the number I generally use.